Re: I deserve a youth
i remember an incident back in 92-93. my sister was talking to her guy friend (boyfriend as i knew abt it :D) and my mum was in the kitchen. just b4 sis hung up the phone she said love u 2 to him and my mum heard that. she goes like heinnnnnnnNNNN. every parent knows this much english at least :D. anyways my mum was more hurt to know that my sis didn't tell her abt that. keeping secrets in our family is a big no-no (though at time u don't feel comfortable to share and thats fine with every1). anyways to make it short, my mum and dad were and still are very much involved in our lives only bcoz we let them. they never got involved more than needed. my dad believe that if u want to make a rule then it should be for every1, girl boy young old. should be the same. we made mistakes (some really huge ones) and we did got scolded for that and others had to listen aswell bcoz every1 should learn from mistakes of their own and others aswell. parents should try to maintain a balanced attitude towards their children. if u want to give freedom to your sons then have the same attitude towards ur daughters aswell. injustice of such kind at home does no one any good especially to the ones who are at the receiving end.
i'd stop by buk-buking now :D