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islam is all about avoiding these kind of mistakes
OTHER religions are also about avoiding these kinds of mistakes, genius.
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Bhabhi yeh haath se nikle jaa rahe hain 
@OP it’s normal to have a crush on your prof or boss or whatever…the thing is to realize that its just a temporary infatuation and it would be a mistake to act on it
Like RV said do evaluate what you are missing in your relationship with hubz and try to rekindle your romance with him,…just dont act on your crush…
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haa
from an argument POV, just because i said islam is all about avoiding these kind of mistakes does not mean i am implying that other religions DO NOT support the same idea
now talking about all religions and their present state and understanding, of all islam protects their followers like no other islam says no drinking, no zina, no affairs etc while there are versions of bible that imply incest is ok
lol @ genius
OTHER religions are also about avoiding these kinds of mistakes, genius.
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In general, Villageyaar....most religions don't support the idea of having extramarital affairs (which is more relevant to this thread...although the OP hasn't engaged in such behavior).
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In general, Villageyaar....most religions don't support the idea of having extramarital affairs (which is more relevant to this thread...although the OP hasn't engaged in such behavior).
Whoa! excuse you, my name is Shehryar too. Not funny
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^I have a cousin named Shehryaar. We jokingly say Gaaonyaar.
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^I have a cousin named Shehryaar. We jokingly say Gaaonyaar.
That doesn't even make sense
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you are not attracted to your husband anymore. familiarity has set in and all the spark and attraction is gone.
add to that, youre probably entering a phase of hormonal change. womens sex drive starts to peak during early 30's. this is a time when their tastes in men also change. they lost attraction for their husbands whom they married for different reasons. something tells me that even though yours was a love marriage, you loved him because he is a good companion not because he was a good sex partner. sexual desirability was not high on your priority when you fell in love with him. Im pretty sure your boss is much more sexually/physically desirable than your husband.
this normally comes out as a need to fill an emotional void. women try to rationalize their attraction towards other men by blaming their husbands for not giving them time or pointing at personality traits of the new guy in their life, when in reality what they really need is a good fcuk from a better looking guy. this also ensures that women remain morally superior despite infidelity.
you love your husband, but youre not IN love with him. all advice you will get from people here will fall on deaf ears. you will do what your instincts will tell you. you will have sex with that guy. you will cheat on your husband. It will be a fling on the side.
meanwhile you will tell your husband that you are experiencing a decline in your sex drive and request him to be more 'understanding'. in reality your sex drive will be going thru the roof and you'll be having sex with a man youre really attracted to.
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the workplace offers women unlimited and easy opportunities to have flings and sexual relationships on the side. any average looking woman can have flings with goodlooking men in her proximity.
Re: I can't stop thinking about my boss! Please help.
you are not attracted to your husband anymore. familiarity has set in and all the spark and attraction is gone. add to that, youre probably entering a phase of hormonal change. womens sex drive starts to peak during early 30's. this is a time when their tastes in men also change. they lost attraction for their husbands whom they married for different reasons. something tells me that even though yours was a love marriage, you loved him because he is a good companion not because he was a good sex partner. sexual desirability was not high on your priority when you fell in love with him. Im pretty sure your boss is much more sexually/physically desirable than your husband. this normally comes out as a need to fill an emotional void. women try to rationalize their attraction towards other men by blaming their husbands for not giving them time or pointing at personality traits of the new guy in their life, when in reality what they really need is a good fcuk from a better looking guy. this also ensures that women remain morally superior despite infidelity.
you love your husband, but youre not IN love with him. all advice you will get from people here will fall on deaf ears. you will do what your instincts will tell you. you will have sex with that guy. you will cheat on your husband. It will be a fling on the side.
meanwhile you will tell your husband that you are experiencing a decline in your sex drive and request him to be more 'understanding'. in reality your sex drive will be going thru the roof and you'll be having sex with a man youre really attracted to.
the workplace offers women unlimited and easy opportunities to have flings and sexual relationships on the side. any average looking woman can have flings with goodlooking men in her proximity.
Mashallah so wise and judgmental. I say you have a very bright future on GS.
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Wear a larger diamond ring on your left ring finger. You'll notice the bling more and so will your boss. That'll be your reminder to change your thoughts.
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the workplace offers women unlimited and easy opportunities to have flings and sexual relationships on the side. any average looking woman can have flings with goodlooking men in her proximity.
Trully amazed at how some people think!
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Same is here :hinna: but my lady boss is also single 
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*I feel so bad in even asking this question out aloud but better asked to*strangers than someone I know.. or at leats thats how i feel right now.I am married. It was a love marriage and i do love my husband. He is wonderful But over the last few months i can stop thinking about my boss - i have tried to stop thinking about him but it is just not happening. I am not sure why this is. My boss is also decent guy, he has never misbehaved or given mixed vibes as such but I can tell he likes me. Not sure which way though... He appeared a little nervous the last time we met but that could be anything.. This is just driving me a little crazy... please help if u can.
I respect your boss for not giving you any favourable signals you could act on. From what you have said you are waiting for the right moment to make a move on him.
What exactly do you want from your boss, for him to fall in love with you and divorce his wife? or to fall in love with you and have fun times secretly behind your partners backs? Or you know this is just a crush and it will pass?
If you can answer these questions you will know what you want to do.
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you PCG ?
Ab mein kuch kahooN ga tu warning mil jaye gi
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*I feel so bad in even asking this question out aloud but better asked to*strangers than someone I know.. or at leats thats how i feel right now.I am married. It was a love marriage and i do love my husband. He is wonderful But over the last few months i can stop thinking about my boss - i have tried to stop thinking about him but it is just not happening. I am not sure why this is. My boss is also decent guy, he has never misbehaved or given mixed vibes as such but I can tell he likes me. Not sure which way though... He appeared a little nervous the last time we met but that could be anything.. This is just driving me a little crazy... please help if u can.
Can you keep your legs closed? If yes, dont worry all infatuations end after some time. If you can't, then there are two options.............
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Trully amazed at how some people think!
the 'looks angle' is conveniently ignored by people, yet its always unmistakably and undeniably present in the realm of sex, attraction, courtship norms and relationships. thinking along these lines makes both genders upset for different reasons.
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the 'looks angle' is conveniently ignored by people, yet its always unmistakably and undeniably present in the realm of sex, attraction, courtship norms and relationships. thinking along these lines makes both genders upset for different reasons.
Obviously, your "analysis" of women falling for male co-workers is based on this thread.
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Obviously, your "analysis" of women falling for male co-workers is based on this thread.
i dont remember myself saying anything about any such 'epidemic'
refer to my previous post