Re: I can't stop thinking about my boss! Please help.
Fiza, great thread. Please make sure that we meet from 8:30 to 9:30 for our Monday morning status meeting, instead of our regular 8:30 to 9:00.
Thanks.
Re: I can't stop thinking about my boss! Please help.
Common guys... Telling this confused girl to sleep with her boss is hardly helping her....Fizak - just take a day at a time. Are you happy with your husband? Maybe the real problem is that. I would honestly answer tht question and take it from there... I think u maybe bored hence the attraction... U don't know ur boss I assume personally to b in love!
Re: I can't stop thinking about my boss! Please help.
Fiza, great thread. Please make sure that we meet from 8:30 to 9:30 for our Monday morning status meeting, instead of our regular 8:30 to 9:00.Thanks.
Lol ... That's mean...
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I don’t think she’s in love. She’s just filling some gap in her relationshop with her husband. Wrong way so better to stop right now and reestablish the loyalty for your spouse. You have a commitment to your spouse that loves you so much.
TLK 
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this is not exactly something peculiar to Fiza's case -- it's known through various surveys and otherwise that women fantasize abt other men even when in a relationship. I'm a guy, take it from me the way married women hit on you. Sigh.
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I agree I think she needs to rekindle the reasons y she gt married…
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They do?? 
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I'm just going to say it... U obviously no longer are in love with your husband...live your life, u only get it once.. And if that means leaving him , leave him... As for your boss... I agree with an earlier post/s ... Sleep with him, can't hurt your career n you'll get it out of your system!
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LOL – YES! you can tell, ,its the way they look at you and some other not so covert clues
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QUOTE=redvelvet;Our feelings are reflected in our body language and as much as you might feel that you haven't given him any indication of your crush.....he could even pick it up in your body language. And that can be embarrassing....especially if he doesn't feel the way.
I know he likes me because I can sense and see it in his body language also...He is also married.
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I know he likes me because I can sense and see it in his body language also...He is also married.
SO? It really doesn't matter that you are confident in your assessment of his feelings. I think it's better for you not to dwell on his actions/words...body language...and what you did or did not sense from him each day at work. You may not have control over the thoughts that enter your mind....but you definitely have control over whether you want to dwell on the matter or redirect your attention toward something more constructive. In that, you do have a choice.
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discuss this with hubbyjee. he knows best.
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If you both like each other but don't care your spouses, it's time to stop playing games with your spouses. Talk to them and get out. Hope you don't have children.
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Why should your husband miss out on all the fun?
Invite him over to the office and everyone can be happy
Wtf is wrong with people these days? Putting their selfish desires ahead of the greater good. No wonder the world is a degenerate mess
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LOLL (laughed so hard)
even by being called muslims this is we are up to?
judgement day is closer that i thought
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*I feel so bad in even asking this question out aloud but better asked to*strangers than someone I know.. or at leats thats how i feel right now.I am married. It was a love marriage and i do love my husband. He is wonderful But over the last few months i can stop thinking about my boss - i have tried to stop thinking about him but it is just not happening. I am not sure why this is. My boss is also decent guy, he has never misbehaved or given mixed vibes as such but I can tell he likes me. Not sure which way though... He appeared a little nervous the last time we met but that could be anything.. This is just driving me a little crazy... please help if u can.
It only shows that your boss's game plan is working on you.
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What does being a Muslim have anything to do with the problem? Muslims…just like people of ALL OTHER religions and even those that don’t believe in a religion…make mistakes and posess weaknesses in their nature like all humans do. 
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okay, all things considered here is my final take: Your feelings are normal, but don't act on them or else you will lose a lot of things you value, while I'm not sure you're how certain you are abt whether a potential relationship with your boss will be meaningful or not.
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(sarcastically) well said
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islam is all about avoiding these kind of mistakes