I can't stop thinking about my boss! Please help.

[Mirch]

Re: I can’t stop thinking about my boss! Please help.

@uzair1

you are not attracted to your husband anymore. familiarity has set in and all the spark and attraction is gone.
add to that, youre probably entering a phase of hormonal change. womens sex drive starts to peak during early 30’s. this is a time when their tastes in men also change. they lost attraction for their husbands whom they married for different reasons. something tells me that even though yours was a love marriage, you loved him because he is a good companion not because he was a good sex partner. sexual desirability was not high on your priority when you fell in love with him. Im pretty sure your boss is much more sexually/physically desirable than your husband.
this normally comes out as a need to fill an emotional void. women try to rationalize their attraction towards other men by blaming their husbands for not giving them time or pointing at personality traits of the new guy in their life, when in reality what they really need is a good fcuk from a better looking guy. this also ensures that women remain morally superior despite infidelity.

you love your husband, but youre not IN love with him. all advice you will get from people here will fall on deaf ears. you will do what your instincts will tell you. you will have sex with that guy. you will cheat on your husband. It will be a fling on the side.

meanwhile you will tell your husband that you are experiencing a decline in your sex drive and request him to be more ‘understanding’. in reality your sex drive will be going thru the roof and you’ll be having sex with a man youre really attracted to.

@uzair1

the workplace offers women unlimited and easy opportunities to have flings and sexual relationships on the side. any average looking woman can have flings with goodlooking men in her proximity.

Mashallah so wise and judgmental. I say you have a very bright future on GS.