I cant do this anymore...

All of you know that I am married…or at least most of you do.

My husband is a nice guy but its just that he isnt…very romantic. We’ve been married for a while and before I didnt really miss the romance but things are different now.

I met someone who is everything my husband isnt. And I mean everything…he is sweet, romantic, caring, loves me for who I am and doesnt treat me like I am something he picked up at a garage sale.

I didnt mean to fall in love but it happened. I wasnt trying to hurt anyone at all…just woke up one morning and all of a sudden things were different.

What should I do?

Re: I cant do this anymore...

do you know osmosis?

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With the kind of topics going on here, i m not sure if this is a serious one either so i m going to refrain from sharing my views until i am sure.

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What does the process of osmosis have anything to do with me?

I am distressed.

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satrangi, you're in a committed relationship with your husband who is a good man, why do you want to do anything to jeopardize that?

if you look at some of the stories of abusive husbands/SO/fiances on here, you'll be happy that you do have so much, if it's just an issue of romance, why haven't you tried to tell your husband straight out all that you feel? i don't remember your older threads, if you give some background and more details it would help

i'm the last person to give advice on this but i really don't think you should even think about this other man, this other man knows you're married and he's still making advances.......why?

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I agree with you 100% there :)

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:smack:

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whaaa?

whats going on

nomeeka where is he, he said i was trolling and now look!

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i think i know who you are…:hmmm:

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i dunt use my other nik :slight_smile:

i observe, its okey u cant be angry and not help me

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I am sorry to hear that, but maybe instead of cheating on your husband, you should talk to him. Just sayin'

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I cant...he is jealous!

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who's jealous?

how is it love with this other man if you haven't even lived with him and seen all his flaws yet? and when you break it off with the good man that is your husband and get with this other guy and you find out that he also has some flaws just like your present hubby will you again look for another man...?

don't understan why you can't try every possible way to make this marriage work and then give up after all ways of trying to improve it haven't worked.

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Oh my.....what is happening in life1?all these married men/women out there need to get their minds and moral values straight! Insanity it is!

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List all the good things about your husband, either here or on your own.

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Omg, I didn't know you were married.

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No wonder we are having so many earth quakes and natural disasters :emmy:

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Ye sab kia ho raha hai… qayamat qareeb hai logo :bummer:

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He is jealous of anything I touch...he could never understand mere dil ki baat. Every time I try to talk to him, he turns the TV on and takes his hearing aid out.

:(

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we trust you. he is also not your husband

so stop doing that :mad: