Re: I can never please my in laws!!!!
Mermaid all u and ur husband have to do is talk to her, and explain her the same what u just did, as to how much u want to be a part of this family, what i see as a possible reason is that most of the times if it is a love marriage ( not that this is not possible in arranged marriages and i am assuming u have a love marriage) the mothers tend to think "merey betey ko mujh sey duur kar diya" and so seh raises her guard all u got to do is talk to her and bring her defences down. Hope i did kinda help and not confused u even more.