They have filed for divorce but are not divorced yet... BUT you went out to dinner with him ( Im assuming your friend does not know)...erm, thatt's not right.
I am guessing he hasn't told his wife about going out for dinner for sure. Though, I would want him to tell her at least. But i wouldn't tell her as i wouldn't want to create further problems. Going out for dinner was not planned. It is just restaurant was happen to be right there and HE asked me to go.
oh women ! did you bother to ask your friend why they can't able to keep up there marriage. maybe the guy is a jerk, he is sexy and sweet but well his stuff can't stay in pants, voila? .. and guess what if chicks are getting marry because of just attraction then write my words they will end up crying in junk hole in less then a year. I know because i am a guy and a**hole kind a guy, trust me.
Ok. Now that you are asking firenze. He is not a jerk. His wife told me this. For all i know she might be covering for him. But i know his best friend too who is his childhood friend told me often how his friend is best of best with everyone around him. I call him cute because i like him firenze. And this is not the only criteria for liking someone. Ain't shallow.
Why not convert without marrying him or being asked by him?... if so interested.
My conversion for sake of him was a joke. ok?. I will NOT convert ever.
This is my first post in life 1 and i have serious problem which i am facing. I reallly need sincere advise and especially someone who has gone through same problem. There is a friend of mine her name is Samia. She is going through divorce from this guy name Irfan. And knowing them for couple of years (ever since they got married) they are mashallah nice people. However, i felt slight attraction to Irfan whenever we would meet in group gathering. He was kind of guy that i wanted. He is loving sweet and caring. At the moment they have filed for divorce is because they can't get along with each other. That is all i know. Ok so i met him at grocery store on christmas eve and we ended up going for dinner. So here is the issue, i have been thinking about him so much for last 2 days!. Don't know what happened to me. I think i always liked him but i am developing feelings for him. The problem is what Samia would think if i date her ex husband??. Call it infatuation love or whatever but i have developed very strong liking to him. :( And guys please no making fun otherwise i will burn you alive. :mad
Hey Queen, this is perfectly normal and alright to feel this way. :) I think you should really go for him. Love only comes once in a life time, don't let something silly like a first wife make you lose the love of your life!!! :)
Ok. Now that you are asking firenze. He is not a jerk. His wife told me this. For all i know she might be covering for him. But i know his best friend too who is his childhood friend told me often how his friend is best of best with everyone around him. I call him cute because i like him firenze. And this is not the only criteria for liking someone. Ain't shallow.
And about him interested in me?. Yes he hasn't said anything about him interested in me. BUT he would often tell me how pretty i look and what i wore etc etc. (We work in same company but different departments). And we would go out for lunch together as friends. He also told me that if he didn't married his wife, he would have chosen me. 2 & 3).
1. I think he is. Why? look at my answer above. And in additon to this, he would text me at work to go have lunch with him. Basically i am not a child i can tell if he is even slightly interested me or not.
hate to break it to you, but I know plenty of guys that tell girls how pretty they look, and text them and it DOES NOT mean that they're wanting to get into a relationship with them.
Yo i must say you're quiet brave chick. But going after your friend's husband was not right yo!. Respect his and your friend's boundary. There are certain no go areas if you know what i mean. I am not going to judge you who ya are and why ya doing this but i sincerely hope you give this a thought. Ya can still find a fellow of your dreams..but i believe he is not the one.
The dignity of Queens aught to be above chasing men ... pull yourself together .... it is below you to chase a married man who may be using you ...
Have you considered that because you are not Muslim he may feel it is okay to play around during his rough patch? Have you considered the feeling of your friend? Then imagine you do end up with him, you will never be able to see your friend again ... because you will always suspect her for trying to get him back ...
This magical moment lasts that long - a moment ... after that reality sets in ... remember don't be so desperate ...
Hey Queen, this is perfectly normal and alright to feel this way. :) I think you should really go for him. Love only comes once in a life time, don't let something silly like a first wife make you lose the love of your life!!! :)
I guess you are only saying what she wants to hear us say ... just a little push too hard I hear you say ... and smirk as she falls from the swing ... then you shrug ... "well she wanted me to push" ...
OKK an UPDATE: I have distant myself from friend of mine and her husband. Thanks to everyone of you for caring so much. Wanted to say i have nothing against nobody. And some people were harsh only because you all care about other people. Thanks for saving me for this emotional me. Love and Hugz to all.
OKK an UPDATE: I have distant myself from friend of mine and her husband. Thanks to everyone of you for caring so much. Wanted to say i have nothing against nobody. And some people were harsh only because you all care about other people. Thanks for saving me for this emotional me. Love and Hugz to all.
It's great that you're starting the new year off with a positive outlook and change. May things fall into place for you and get better, Amin :)
just shag him already and the lust will immediately fade and you will be able to move on.
