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Halwa, she turned him down in the beginning because she was already in a relationship with someone else.
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redvelvet, i dont think she was seeing anyone at the time i proposed her. and i did not know that she had had a mangni break up before that. she hangs out with this two girls. and both of them are friends with a couple of guys. so in order to understand the situation better, let me call them by letters.
so we have our girl in question, X, and then her friend, Y. and then there are these two guys, XX, and YY. we thought X was dating XX and Y was dating YY.
I am not much friends with XX. it has to do with his attitude. not many people like him. he is a jerk, attitude problem and all.please dont assume that i dont like him just because he has been hanging out with X.
YY is a great fellow. very soft spoken and no attitude problem whatsoever. the other day we were working on a class assignment and i was teasing YY about Y. and he said that he was not dating her. I did not ask him anything about X or XX. but i think X was interested in him because there were some signs that i saw. for example, laughing at everything he said. you know like showing real interest. and ofcourse statements like "XX is learning pashto" etc etc. these were the things like from three weeks or older.
yesterday three things happened. we were making presentations in the class. I was feeling bored in the class so i started reading a book not related to the class. my turn for presentation came so i had to leave my desk and go to the podium. anyway after i left, she took the book i was reading and started leafing through it. perhaps she was looking through my notes. dont you think that you are not supposed to pick up the stuff of the guy you dont like?
anyway, the second thing happened in the evening. we have different tournaments. in the earlier tournament(football) i played, and XX played too. X and Y rooted for him. yesterday a new tournament (volleyball)started. my team was not playing. XX's team was playing. but surprisingly neither X nor Y were rooting for them.
the third thing happened last night. we had this function and there was a song being played for everyone, that showed their personality one way or the other. when my turn came there was big clapping ( i am a friendly jolly fellow and and friends with almost everybody so may be that the case). but the surprising thing is that X was clapping to. she has not much clapped for me before. the other surprising thing was that she did not clap much for XX.
there were a couple of other things that have happened too. maybe i am reading too much into all this. or maybe this indifference thing is really working and all.