I Am trying to understand the psychology here

Mirch · May 6, 2009, 3:36pm

Firstly never ask women for advice about women. They are obtuse to say the least. Now your problem is as follows she is deliberately placing herself opposite to you. Its a simple. She is an attention whore. She is looking for attention from you.

You have two ways to handle this. 1. Give her the attention but like a man. Meaning act the same. Act like nothing happened. It will drive her ****ing insane. It will work perfectly for you. Chat with her when you sit next to her. Nothing to serious. Say hello, talk to her about work or class and then blow her off when you see another girl.

The thing you want to show is indifference. Yes you proposed, she rejected you, now its time to show her she is not all that important. Class room setting as it is, she sits next to you. So say Salam. Smile at her, reel her in so that she expects a conversation, then move on to speak with someone else right away.

While the female will construe this to you being a jackass, it will have a second affect. She won’t target you. Women love attention. When they lose it they are *****es. They also hate competition. What you have done is given her the assumption she is important to you and thus deserves your attention. Your indifference will cause her to back off right away. Be ready for major backbiting then. You are to show her the following:

You proposed, she rejected you. No big deal You are over her and can be a normal person.

She isn’t that important to you. You will be normal around her and she was a small fish a rather large ocean.

Most important thing you have to remember is that her feelings are unimportant. You aren’t marrying her. You are your own person. You are not responsible for her actions. You are the not the cause of her blatant stupidity.

The second option is to be a rude jerk. But anger is not indifference. Anger shows you are slighted and thus gives her some satisfication. Indifference is the key.

100 percent on the mark . You make lot of sense . Lose the profanity though , it is not cool.