I am thinking of taking on the Hijab

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Explain something to me oh wise sages, a hijab is worn for modesty correct? So if a hijaban has a boyfriend it is immodest? Correct? But if you don't wear a hijab having a boyfriend is not immodest? For those challenged in comprehending english - does the fact that you do not wear a hijab make it ok to have a boyfriend?

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Why is GS so averse to hijabis? Every other day or at least about once a week I see non-hijabis starting threads complaining about how some hijabi looked at them, or how she talked in a certain manner, or was seen talking to others, or was with a guy, etc. etc.

I don't see hijabis complaining about non-hijabis, then why do I always see non-hijabis gang up on hijabis attacking, mocking and BS'ing about them? Just for the record, non-hijabis also tend to give hijabis a hard time, but I don't often (if at all) see hijabis complaining.

CM, all restrictions seem to apply to hijabis only at least on GS.

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sadiyah, the reason most poepel are generally anti hijaab is that hijaabans geberally asusme themselves to be more pious and generally spiritually enlightened. This is not usually the case and leads to unduely annoying pomous and arrogant attitudes which they then reinforce by shoving their religion down their neighbours throats. Its very pretty that you choose to draw attention to yourself by wearing a scarf on your head - fr what ever reason. But please do not assume that I am a lesser muslim than you.

When a hijaaban assumes I am lesser in the eyes of allah miah - I feel like ripping off her hijaab, rolling it up and shoving it in her mouth. If you then fk around and justify it with a headscarf and THEN preach to me then Im afraid I shall have to shoot you.

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You poor thing. Is the world (GS) against you? :frowning:

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hiccup, again it is a general assumption that hijabis look down upon non-hijabis. I'm sure many may do it, but there are many others who never look down upon anyone.

Afterall, only Allah (SWT) knows who is better in terms of piety (and everything else). Therefore, hijabis and non-hijabis shouldn't be going around judging and BS'ing about each other.

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Please o enlightened one. Mr kiwi doesnt care.

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To all the hijabans and the boyfriends of hijabans, no need to take it personally. From what I understand, this thread is about hijabans that give hijabans a bad name by indulging in unhijabanlike activities that defeats the purpose to begin with. We all know how GS is free of such cases, so why worry or even react?

Unless ofcourse.

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Please stop worrying and start ignoring the hijabis and their activities. Also, minding your own business for a change would be good.

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Hijabis in a tight clothing may seems ridiculous, but she'll always have that much more courage than those constantly pointing fingers whilst are afraid to stand thier ground and make a statement, an that too in a hostile environment. Its always easy to assimulate and follow the pack just so you dont stand out no. Anyone can do as much. Still, no one is dissing you for being a sheep, but that doesnt in anyway give you the higher ground to go all judge-mental on those who refuse to be one, does it?

secondly, Hijabis in a mini are actually no less ridiculous than those who throw a dupatta over their heads as soon as they hear the Quran, the adhan, naat etc.. The few times they dont need to cover, they do so religiously. Ever thought of that one? its senseless but we dont see hijabis dissing them in every other thread. Insecurities seem abound here, an its turning pretty nasty.

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It's NOT ok to have a boyfriend if you are muslim, hijabi/not hijabi doesn't matter. If you assume that a girl is hijabi so she must be very pious then problem is with you. Don't blame hijabis for this. It's not ok to have a boyfriend/girlfriend at all. Nowhere in Islam it's written that if you wear scarf you shouldn't have a boyfriend and if you don't, it's OKAY for you. Many people offer prayer 5 times a day but it doesn't mean they are very religious, pious, pure muslims. What actually the point of this thread? That people should not follow Islamic things if they can't completely follow it right? One must follow each and every bit of religion otherwise do whatever you feel like doing, is that what you're trying to say? Atleast appreciate positive things. If you don't want to follow, fine; but don't discourage others please.

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^
how come you are 'mindless' ...???
i think you are wise one! :)

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good posts by sadiyah and mindless.

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ameen.

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khumar sweety u seem so damn frustrated. Chill darling & stop criticising others! try to better yourself instead. totally agree with Saadiyah, Ma mooli & mindless.


maybe i don't see my hijabi friends, strolling hand in hand with a guy, unless he happens to be her fiance

strolling hand in hand with your fiance is right is it? since when did a fiance become a mehram, talking to a fiance on the phone,going out with him, sending him little presents telling him you love him & all is right is it? You need to really sort your head out. pakis have always had this problem of being confused…of mixing culture and religion.


maybe, if and when my friends did have a boyfriend, they have felt really, really bad about their actions

BOO HOO khumars friends are such GOOD people, why coz they felt BAD about their actions…& what do they do after they get a boyfriend,they lose the scarf…OH arent your friends such angels…dont you just wish every hijabi was like your friends. lol. hun you have a lot of growin up to do yet.

:rolleyes:

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oh & im sure hijabis wouldnt go drown themselves in sorrow if they lost the respect of ignorant people like you.

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^ hit a nerve there?

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^^ baichari multinick was possibly hurt badly in a previous incarnation :(

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as i sit here brokenhearted..........you know the rest.

I can't believe there are some people who couldnt see thru' Khumer's beautiful sarcasm. Am i the only one. I can't believe this people are actually posting serious thoughts on here.

Remember what got the Jewish people through so much pain and suffering; it was their humor.

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aww hiccy:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: (dont all these kisses remind u of some1?in my past janam i was defn associated to u)

IF ONLY khumar sweety had a brain to put across sarcasm rather beautifully and some sort of sense of humour, she’d be alot happier.

whenever you cant justify your silly lil arguments the whole things made out to be a joke.tsk tsk tsk.

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these abcd girls just put on a hijab to fool their parents into thinking that they are all pious and virtuous..BS..on the side they do all haraam partying/bfs kinda stuff..very hypocritical..