Re: I am tensed!
Catskin, there are exceptions okay? My mom did not live with her in-laws. But my chaachi lived with my dada/dadi and even she never felt uneasy about having her married siblings over…in fact my chachi’s nieces/nephews would even spend the night over. As for the expenses…my grandparents got their money from their sons (my dad, chacha, taya) which was used for a variety of purposes…(hospitality, etc). Even when my mom wasn’t in Pak…my dadi would make courtesy phone calls/visists to my mom’s side of the family for various occasions.