My in laws are insensitive or may be evil. My mamooN was coming from Pakistan and my in laws asked if i wanted something from Pakistan, i asked them to send chalghozey. Now they called my wife next day and said, better variety of chalghozey are only available in Murree and in Islamabad are not that great and asked if i would like mong phali (peanuts) instead. I told my wife i dont want mong phali, it gives me cough. Now, my mamooN came and i find that they sent mong phali for me and chalghozey for my BIL (my wife’s brother).
I am so angry, i am going to send the mong phali back to them by DHL.
Yeah TLK, i am a human too, for how long can i tolerate such things. I have to send the mong phali back to them, so that they know, i am not taking it any more. And my wife, she doesn't understand. She thinks its not a big deal.
Make a video of yourself feeding those peanuts to squirrels in park and say to the squirrels while they eat, , "yeh moongphali pakistan se ayee hai". Then send them the video.
Yeah TLK, i am a human too, for how long can i tolerate such things. I have to send the mong phali back to them, so that they know, i am not taking it any more. And my wife, she doesn't understand. She thinks its not a big deal.
I suggest that you talk to bhabhi when she is in a calm mood, and make her understand that chilghozay and moong phali are 2 different things. If she cant understand that, then make her taste both. I am sure then she will understand.
I pray that you both be able to work out this unique but serious situation.
This is not the first time they are doing it, when i visited them last year, they asked me what i would like for dinner and i asked for kareley goosht, instead they made daal kareley, saying goosht available in the market was not of good quality. Next day when my BIL came, they made kareley goosht!
I suggest that next time on their wedding anniversary, send them an expensive gift when they are least expecting one. That will teach them the lesson.
Oh better yet, hire a maid to take care of cooking and cleaning. When they realize that you dont consider their daughter the Maalika of Kitchen anymore, then they will start respecting you more.
I suggest that next time on their wedding anniversary, send them an expensive gift when they are least expecting one. That will teach them the lesson.
Oh better yet, hire a maid to take care of cooking and cleaning. When they realize that you dont consider their daughter the Maalika of Kitchen anymore, then they will start respecting you more.
desis sarr pe char jatay hain aisay....it never works.
dude, i can ask for chalghozey from my family in Pakistan, but i am angry at their arrogance and ignorance that they send something for their son with my mamooN, which i asked for and they did not send me.
I suggest that next time on their wedding anniversary, send them an expensive gift when they are least expecting one. That will teach them the lesson.
Oh better yet, hire a maid to take care of cooking and cleaning. When they realize that you dont consider their daughter the Maalika of Kitchen anymore, then they will start respecting you more.
We have a maid for last 6 years and actually these days we have two, new one in training mode before the old one leaves.