I am so proud of myself today!

Re: I am so proud of myself today!

10 calls within 10-15 minutes is not normal behaviour. Calling someone, repeatedly, with an “urgent” message that is not actually urgent is not normal behaviour.

If she is doing this with other people, she may have some sort of personality disorder. I know another lady in our community who behaves like this. She has been diagnosed and is on medication. The ladies in the community are irritated at the “urgent” phone calls which are normally nothing urgent at all, but they tolerate it because she is not mentally fit. Her own family is fed up of her, but what can you do? She can’t help it.

Just something to consider… and if she does have some sort of personality disorder/bi-polar type depression, she will continue to call you (and others) during her episodes.

If you and the other ladies in the community that she keeps contacting are ever genuinely concerned, you should reach out to this woman’s family. For the lady in our community, it is only when one of my aunt’s contacted the woman’s husband to find out why his wife keeps calling like this when he disclosed that she is mentally unstable. So now, when she calls repeatedly in the day, leaves “call me now - it’s urgent” type messages, we all tolerate it cause we know she needs support and is not altogether there, mentally.