Punch my husbands face in. LOL. Ok sorry. Um, inform my parents straightaway of the situation so they are aware of the mistreatment and can step in to support me.
Talk to my husband and determine the reasoning behind his actions. Why the need to slap? Over what?
Push the divorce card on the table, basically calling his bluff, because I doubt he would divorce with a child to consider and the fact that in a fudged up way he loves you.
Once he begs and pleads not for divorce, clarify that you wish to live separately from the inlaws and only on this ground you will return to the marriage.
Some people may think that pushing the divorce card maybe a little extreme, but in my eyes slapping your wife IN FRONT of his no good mother is not something that should ever ever be tolerated.
There is no islamic obligation for you to live with his parents. Explain that to him. Demand your own private quarters/accommodation, but near enough so that he can look after his parents.
I would push for separation from inlaws. These people will not let her live otherwise. That's just my two cents.
Punch my husbands face in. LOL. Ok sorry. Um, inform my parents straightaway of the situation so they are aware of the mistreatment and can step in to support me.
Talk to my husband and determine the reasoning behind his actions. Why the need to slap? Over what?
Push the divorce card on the table, basically calling his bluff, because I doubt he would divorce with a child to consider and the fact that in a fudged up way he loves you.
Once he begs and pleads not for divorce, clarify that you wish to live separately from the inlaws and only on this ground you will return to the marriage.
Some people may think that pushing the divorce card maybe a little extreme, but in my eyes slapping your wife IN FRONT of his no good mother is not something that should ever ever be tolerated.
There is no islamic obligation for you to live with his parents. Explain that to him. Demand your own private quarters/accommodation, but near enough so that he can look after his parents.
I would push for separation from inlaws. These people will not let her live otherwise. That's just my two cents.
Same I suggested her about living separately and she told me that she said that too and her MIL also said, haan haan le ja isko kisi aur ghar main mujhay bhi iskay sath nahin rehna, but the eventually she knows ke sab kehne ki baten hain, agar ispe amal kerna shuru kiya unke bete ne to wo ispe bhi hangama shuru ker dengi!!
^ :nono: Divorce is not something to play with. One should never bring it up ASSUMING that the other spouse won’t go for it. I believe we had another thread not too long ago where a woman with child did this…and guess what…her husband agreed! There are MANY men out there (yes desi ones too) who divorce their wives even with kids in the picture. So please don’t ever bring up divorce thinking that there is no chance in he*l that he’ll agree to it.
specially when he is immature and short-tempered!!
maybe uski maa ye chahti ho ke itna aajiz kardo ke larki khud mutalba karday aur maa kahay, dekha beta ye to nibhana hi nahin chah rahi thee… aur phir apnay waqto ke zulum batanay lagay ke hamaray sath kiya kiya nahin hua aur hum ne kiya kiya nahin bardasht kiya!!
How stupid, hum loug idher larr rahay hain, ghar chor do, divorce lay lo, told you you only gonna get these suggestions, ider 50% tu despo divorcees hain, kiss nay apna banda chor diya aur kisi ke wifey usay chor k bahg gayee and 40% k paas rishtay nahi hain 10 % minority hai aur yeh 90% loug unhay khush nahi dekh saktay.Tum ahsay hee pareshan ho rahi ho woh uder aram say Japi dal ker Papi ker rahay houn gay!!
:D
Dekho queen, you need to understand there are always 3 sides to every discussion, your side, my side and the right side.
Abb mujhay nahi pata what do you expect, you freind is mature enough to argue back, tou phir she is mature enough to make things right for her.
Dekho queen, you need to understand there are always 3 sides to every discussion, your side, my side and the right side.
Abb mujhay nahi pata what do you expect, you freind is mature enough to argue back, tou phir she is mature enough to make things right for her.
she is mature but she doesnt know playing games or being diplomatic, thats the problem!!
yeh sab to normal hai…shaadii meN yeh sab to hotaa hii hai…aaj laRaaii, kal pyaar, parsoN laRaaii, atarsoN pyaar…aise hii Dugur Duhur shaadii kii gaaRii chaltii rahtii hai till ONE become “QUIET” for ever or one decides to leave the bonds of marriage…whichever comes FIRST! isii liye to yeh gaanaa likhaa hai ksiii shaa’ir ne:
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hamiiN se moHabbat, hamiiN se laRaaii
are maar Daalaa…duhaaii, duhaaii!**
Funny how mentioning divorce is so bad when we’re talking about the wife leaving (and in SEVERE situations such as husband cheating multiple times) but 'I will divorce my wife if she raises her voice to my mother even once ’ is somehow ok
tareef ki thee??
isii liye to yeh gaanaa likhaa hai ksiii shaa’ir ne:
its not Cafe!!
