i am sad and hurt..

[redvelvet]

Re: i am sad and hurt..

@EDAL

The thing is , I’m an outdoor person myself. I like to be out in nature or out doing something, sitting at home makes me very bored, I can’t stand it, I just gotta get out of the house. I would never want to stay at home with her too long.

I’m just hoping she starts school this fall and makes a lot of friends in University, that should get her of my back.

You may not realize it, but you’re more than likely part of the problem you’re experiencing. I’m not exempting your wife or justifying her actions…but we teach people how to treat us and we set boundaries in relationships. Maybe there’s something you’re not doing in that regard…and you need to reflect on it. Cuz it’s easy to point the finger at the other person…but it takes more courage to look at what we ourselves might be doing that’s fueling a situation.