i am sad and hurt..

[JeevayPakistan]

Re: i am sad and hurt..

@cute_ainee

**i live in KSA and going to pakistan in april..its been a year that i got married..when ever i talk about going to pakistan for a month,my hubby says that now that u r going there,stay there for 2 months atleast…like from everything he say it feels as if he is fed up of me and he wants me to go to pak now..though its been only a year that we got married…i asked him many times y do u want me to live so long there?and he says that its just that u spend good time there with ur family and friends..

now my hubby is not at all ann outgoing person and here in KSA i cant drive and cant go out without mehram,on my own…now for everything i have to ask my hubby to go with me and in the first few months we used to go out every day but now if i ask my hubby to go out with me or take me out anywhere,he gets so irritated…now it so happened that i stopped asking him much to go out to malls etc…he goes to office in the morning,come back till 7 or 8 pm and then sits on laptop or goes to sleep…now today i asked him that i want to do some grocery when he came back from office,he said ok,but i wont go now,i will go around 11 pm..i said ok..and now he went to sleep again:(..

the thing is that today i asked him that i wana go to some event tomorrow(thats happening in our city),at first he said"kya kerna hai ja ker,rehne dow"..but i said no i want to go and then he said"now u know y i want u to go back to pakistan"..i said “y?if i ask u to take me somewhere coz i cant drive or go out alone ,is it that much a problem”..he said “yes”..i said i m hurt for what u said and he said"achi baat hai"..

i am soooo sad and hurt:(..what should i do?i am sooo sooo ssoooo frustrated and down:(**

Just take the word ‘i’ out of your life and concentrate on ‘we’ - everything would be alright then.