Re: “I am not religous…but i am spiritual”
Nope.
You will have to define what muslim means.
One recite kalmah and believes in it is muslim. One who does not pray or fast can be muslim but a non-practicing muslim, as long as the person still believes in kalmah and thinks the person is committing sins if not praying. That person has chance to repent and go back to praying.
Now spirituality without following religion is living in denial. A schizophrenic state.
“I believe in spirit but don’t know what it is, who is the spirit, where is the spirit, somewhere it is”. That is oxymoronic and confused statement.
Kinda like…medical school example. “I believe I am a doctor, but no idea how to practice medicine”.
On the other hand: A person who goes to medical school successfully, has all the valid reasons to ‘feel’ like a doctor. 