Re: 'I am not good enough for you.'
What he is trying to say is that he has nothing to offer you.... he is either using this as an excuse to end the relationship, or to keep from starting one with you.
If neither is true....then he has really low self esteem and confidence issues. You should be glad that things have ended.
What does it mean when a guy says that to you?
"I'm not good enough for you."
Actual male translation: "You're not good enough for me."........ **or "Sorry, it's been a fun time, but I'm dumping you.....for other fish in the sea."
Reality: He really isn't good enough for YOU or for ANY girl.
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It's me. It's not you.
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Actual male translation:** ** It's YOU. And not me.
Reality: It's HIM..........not you. He's a jerk for giving such a cliche vague explanation. ****
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but RV, what if he is genuinely not good enough for her? what should he tell her so that she doesn't assume the things in red, teal and blue?
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Why do we call every man a jerk when he expresses his disinterest in a relationship? Is it better for him to drag and fake a relationship than be honest and just say he wants out?
Very true. This happens when she still feels for him and starts calling him a jerk.
The guy in this example did not even have a relationship. So he did not even use her.
Other scenario is when he did not get some interest from her, to save him from humiliation he decided to act from his end. Who knows.
Anyway it is somewhat a polite way to end the relation (if any) than being rude and stop answering calls or starts 'obvious' relation with someone else which would make her hurt more.
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Queer good point.
It could be possible that he genuinly acknowledged them two are not compatible.
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I'm 100 % sure he is interested. I think males cannot wait so long for an answer. They become impatient. They simply want to know Yes or No. He gave you time, no response. Now he is thinking you are not interested and said "I'm not good for you" meaning YOU are the one NOT BEING interested. Don't blame it on the poor guy.
he simply asked you, you did not react. If I was in his position I would do the same. You dumped him, not he. Look at the girls here talkin' gibberish. You seem to be always so innocent and it's always the man making trouble. yayayayayaya.
Re: 'I am not good enough for you.'
I am not goond enough for you means he is not interested. If he was really interested, he would have said something like, " I know I am not good enough for you, but I can try. I want you to give me a chance. etc "
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people....maybe he thought about it rationally and thought they were not compatible?
I mean.....i have had to reject some people in the past due to incompatibility issues in past, and to prvent others form being hurt you have to be soemwhat diplomatic, and diplomatic doesnt have to mean you are lieing.
I mean how can we just assume things about this guy.
Spoko you need to get more info. His statement could have come straight after he smoked kala ganja for all God knows.
I am not goond enough for you means he is not interested. If he was really interested, he would have said something like, " I know I am not good enough for you, but I can try. I want you to give me a chance. etc "
never ever
hmm, thanks once again for your advice. I have been extremely busy for the past few days, so was not able to check out the rest of the responses until just now. I also did not get a chance to speak with that guy until this morning. He called, and was absolutely normal about everything. It was like we never had our last conversation. I did not ask him about it because he was in a very good mood and I did not want to ruin it by mentioning something serious like that. I am not sure whether I should ask him about it at all now, or just forget it?
Re: 'I am not good enough for you.'
My advice for all girls in potential relationship cases.
For preserving your female respect, preventing waste of time and energy, preventing potential future heartbreak.
Ask Boy beforehand and upfront, is he willing to marry you.
If you get a negative or evasive answer it means hes just there to waste your time.
Trust me.
My advice for all girls in potential relationship cases.
For preserving your female respect, preventing waste of time and energy, preventing potential future heartbreak. Ask Boy beforehand and upfront, is he willing to marry you.
If you get a negative or evasive answer it means hes just there to waste your time.
Trust me.
*before you give this advise forward to anynone of these girls, advise them to use their brains first. I think this guy asked her the same question. She didn't get it, though. *