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Reha…I was taking prenatal pills for my hair/skin nails for the longest time, but ran out. They have all the vitamins that a regular multivitamin has…but in just a slightly more quantity. Several of my single friends take them as well for the same purpose. They’re not only confined to pregnant women or those planning to become pregnant. They can be used just for skin/hair health as well. Don’t worry, I checked it out with my pharmacist first. He told me that prenatal pills are good for men as well, but they avoid them for fear they’ll grow boobs and lose their manly voices, LOOOOOOOOL! Any multivitamin with iron is reallly good for the hair and i find it makes a difference. And eating protein and plenty of water also help. My doctor recommended iron and exercise for my hair…and I’ve noticed that when I take an iron supplement, my hair does better in terms of growth and quality.

Oiling your hair helps because it conditions your hair and makes it softer and manageable. And in this state, your hair is stronger, less prone to breaking, and grows better. Don’t worry, Reha, those bridal make-up artists are sooooooo good at styling the hair and making sure that the hair and teeka stay in their place. It will be taken care of.

I’m not a hair ki dushman…(my mom believes otherwise). I really do have a deep affection and appreciation for ever strand on my head. I just thought it was cool to cut your own hair and take credit for it (if it turns out amazing). A friend of mind did that and it turned out nice. I was inspired by her and a movie…it seemd a good idea at the time. I should have stopped to think about all those times I tried to play hairdresser on Barbie and it never worked…the first sign that cutting hair was not my destiny. Oh well.

I think bangs are so adorable, but I can’t pull them off becuase I have super fine/thin hair so bangs are a no-no for me. I like Reese Witherspoons bangs in the pic below

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^ Speaking of hair......I don't know if any of you are like this.....but whenever I'm going through a lot of stress and feel the need to change things in my life.....I always start with the hair. It's either a hair cut or change in hair color. I guess it's a woman thing. It's almost feels like a new hairstyle marks a new chapter or beginning in life.

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You guys ever have a cold headache? You know the type of headache that happens when you eat ice cream, or a slurpy, or anything cold? I just had this really yummy italian ice pina colada, and now my head feels funny, lol.

Reha, how's the exercising going. I went walking/jogging yesterday and I plan on doing it again today! I brought some salad mix to makes some healthy meals for myself. Once I get into the routine of jogging, it actually feels good to have your muscles all stretched. My butt actually feels a little smaller after a good jogging workout, lol.

School has hijacked my life...I never realized how hard med school would ever be. They really push you to the limit. I remember there was a time when I slept a 10 and woke up at 6am, and now I'm lucky if I go to bed at midnight and wake up at 5am. sigh......

One of the thing that happens in med school is you don't know what to talk about with anyone anymore. And the only people you talk to and relate to are your classmates...and it''s always about school, cuz apparantly noone has time to watch TV, go out, or do anything but study! And of course your parents! You become part of this other club where it seems like only your classmates can understand. Your life becomes super organized and super focused. Coffee becomes your best friend. Your room becomes surrounded by tons of books, hilighters, pens, notes and studyguides. Stress is something you are all too familiar with!

It's definetly a unique experience...it makes you more focused towards your goal. I think the best part of it is the competition. In the past I never had to work to shine in school: it came automatically to me. But med school every one is that shining star and you really have to push your self to be brighter then rest! And that's what makes all the studying fun! It's like a game, and you really really want to win it!!

The professors also become tougher....They're more impatient- and expect perfection on the first try....or else be prepared to be yelled at!!! You have to know your stuff really good or else risk embarrassment in front of your class mates! You really learn to develop thick skin....

There also very no- nonsense- especially the surgeons!!! you don't talk about anything else but pathology and surgery with them. Nothing else....no small talk, no unnecessary smiling, just very amazingly to the point!

The funny thing is is that I think the the no-nonsense is rubbing of on me. I don't feel the need to make small talk anymore, and nor do I feel the need to smile anymore, and when I want something done NOW, I want it done NOW!!!! I think I'm really liking the surgeons a bit too much! lol!

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^ Gulaboooooooooooo…good to see you here!

Mina, hope you’re doing well. :hug:

Aisha, Ive not been feeling well lately. Something is up…dont know what yet. I dont need to get sick right now. Im very nauseous and sick in the stomach.

Reha, I know that you’re trying to shed a few pounds before the wedding, but don’t work yourself too hard. The limit is to only lose 1 pound a week…a maximum of 2…no more than that. Make sure that you’re eating well. Get some protien/fruits and veggies. And stay well hydrated. And definitely take a multivitamin to make up for any nutritional deficiencies. And get sufficient sleep.
Hope you feel better soon.

Hi GJ. Hope the break from GS was productive.

Mina, where have you disappeared? Hope you’re doing good.

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When you ladies become mothers and grandmothers, you can bump this thread and say awwwwwwwww, we used to have to much to say!

"Used to" ??? Hopefully we'll also have much to say even after we become mothers or grandmothers :) The thought of which sounds kinda scary to me. Right now, I'm too much of a big kid at heart to be a mom. LOOOOL

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Anybody watch the show, Big Love? It's soooo addictive. It centers around the Henrickson family who are Mormon and practice polygamy which is illegal. It deals with many issues such as the pros and cons of having multiple wives, finding your own identity, and keeping their lifestyle a secret. It's awesome!

I also like watching Gossip girl....which I find to be a very smooth show. I'm waiting for the new episodes to come out.

My favorite reality tv shows are Top Chef and Project Runway (fashion competition/creating and sewing clothes), hosted by Heidi Klum. I used to watch America's next Top Model but Tyra turns me off with her "all about me" "notice me" "this is how I expert Tyra would do the pose" attitude, so it turned me off some.

Aisha! :hug: How are you?

Ive been a bit out of it lately but hoping Im back now. :slight_smile:

My favorite TV shows are King of Queens, America’s Next Top Model, Iron Chef, Girlfriends and a few more I cant think of right now. I love Leah Ramini and her harsh Queens attitude! Iron Chef is awesome and inspirational. Girlfriends is sooooooooooo refreshing and fun! I just adore all four of them and how they are always there for each other like sisters, kwim? Ive not heard of Big Love but will look into it for sure…sounds really good. I love watching A&E…all the murder mysteries…it takes me no time to get hooked on them. Ive spent a full day in front of the TV watching them and only got up to use the restroom and feed myself something now and then. Its such an addictive channel! You need to know what happens to the person who committed the crime and if they got caught. Its so important! LOL

Ive not been feeling well lately. For some odd reason. I hope its just upset stomach. I also had a busy weekend…went to a fundraiser Friday night that went very well. I had company over last night and my mom did a huge Milad at our house today. So, the place was brimming with people! Its been ages since we did a proper Milad at our place so this was nice. The only problem was a few people were missing…we usually all read together. My sister moved to Boston so now its just the three of us and my mom. It still turned out well Mashallah and we had a good time. The other person we noticed missing was my grandmother today…she started the tradition of Milad in my family in Pakistan. We’re big time mic hogs, you can tell from my poor attempts at singing in the Voice Gallery. My grandmother had a few favorite naatein she always read…we attempted them today and I just wanted to cry. I could practically seeeee her right there. She would look down through her glasses at the words and never missed a beat. She was always the shortest person wherever we went…standing at a proud 4’8". She was adorable…but cancer ate her tiny little body up. I just wish soooooooooooooooooooo hard she was here…my wedding will be incomplete without her. I adored her. She was the best…a blessing…a star…a beautiful person!!!

Last but not least…my baby niece. She is growing and growing and growing ladies! Today, I spoke to her and she started rambling all sorts of gobbledy-gook at me, lol. I had to tell her “Chummo, aista” - to slow her down. So she slows down to give me the latest news…“Haala…ohmydod. Sun tudda”!!! Now, Im a little puzzled by this update about the sun so I asked my sister what the heck she meant?! Sis tells me when my niece sees the moon at night, she thinks the sun broke! LOL. So, to translate “Khala, oh my god. Sun toota!”. How cute is that? Mashallah, she is talking like crazy even if it doesnt make sense! She is such a character…people just laugh because the girl is so animated and energetic. I love her and miss her. My little jaan. Im thinking of dressing her up as a little bride…lol. Wont that be cute? A two year old dimpled little dulhan? Mashallah.

Aisha, how is your artwork coming along? How goes the job hunt? Not much luck here. Btw, tomorrow…Im back on the diet!

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don't your fingers swell writing such huge posts?

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No! :snooty:

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no???!!!!!u surely deal things with an iron hand!!!
(what an amazing pun!!)

It is an amazing pun. I'd take it as a compliment. It's good to to have a strong hands....since we use them so often. However, you are not OBLIGATED to read such lengthy posts. Most people don't read everything word for word anyway. Seriously......most people don't even read an entertaining novel word for word. Most people (men and women) skim **written text. The reason I know this is because I have a degree in reading education.

So........please don't wear your iron-body out.............just **skim
like the majority of the population.

I took an extensive typing course when I was in middle school. So that helped tremendously. We learned that if you position your fingers on the correct and standard keys......you'll be able to type faster......without looking at the computer. We also learned that while typing its best not to rest the bottom of your palms on the desk or base of the keyboard as that results in TIRED FINGERS. This is to ensure fast typing without placing stress on the hands/fingers......it's a science known as ERGONOMICS. A little typing tip for those who are concerned about tired fingers!

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Mr./Mrs./Ms RedVelvet
The Senior Member
Gupshup Forum
A Little Miffed
Unknown Place

** 11 March 2009**

Dear Mr./Mrs./Ms RedVelvet,
Application for Pardoning previous mistake(mine, of course)
I'm feeling jubiliated to know you have a degree in reading education.It must be amazing to have such high distinction.About skimming like everyone else,i don't believe in conformity, u see!I don't have an iron body to wear out, that's why i feel double pain while typing so as the generous and benevolent person i am,i feel obliged to share the pain and distress people go through while typing long posts(most of the time ,they don't seem to be aware of it).
As for your ETC(extensive typing course), i ,again, share ur happiness...may God be with u in ur time of overjoy....The marks on the keys 'F' and 'J'---i thought they were some kind of defect in the keyboard...how intelligent i am....Anyway u too showed concern for your fellow beings(those who get tired when typing long) so God is definitely pleased with you..Best of luck for ur life.


Yours ridiculously
Lost Souls.

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**It's Miss Redvelvet
Who is not at all miffed
At Gupshup Forums
In the Happy Camper Thread
But rather amused
On this 10th day of March, in the year 2009.

Dear Lost Souls,
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Welcome to our Happy Camper thread where you shall find posts of various topics and lengths. I really appreciate the joy that you feel for my typing skills and educational qualifications. You seemed so curious about the length of posts that I thought I'd tell you it was alright to skim while also providing a typing tip for the benefit of your fingers...in case you were having finger issues with typing. But non-conformity is even better! Good for you! Some people might be distressed by typing long posts, others might not care, a few might even enjoy it. I'm not going to generalize. However, it really truly is very generous of you to express distress for the entire group. Yes, I was trying to help the troubled typists out there as well. What caring individuals we are! Thank you for the kind wishes. What a sweet soul you have......not at all a lost one. Hopefully God is pleased with the both of us!

Sincerely,

Redvelvet

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwww....you guys are so funny.

Lost, typing long posts is a talent I havent even quite mastered yet. SHC and RedVelvet take the cake. However, to me...when I read or type long posts...it shows how much a person cares. Think about it...if someone spent all that energy on you...it means they care that much. :) So, I enjoy reading them, learning from them and these days when I can manage...I like contributing to them as well.

Aisha...how goes it? Ive been away all weekend with stuff my mother had planned for the family but now Im back. Monday was a recovery day. I so needed it. Im also back on the diet. You know Sadzzz? She is on some sort of a diet too right now and it seems to be working well for her. Im going to ask her what she is doing.

Guess what? A few years ago, I got a rishta from this guy in NY. He was really nice but not my type. We talked for a few months but since it wasnt going anywhere...I just let it die. Anyway, through mutual contacts I heard he got married in Lahore this past summer. Wonderful news, good for him! But last night, I got an email from him out of the blue. He is a doc and will be in my town for an interview in May and wants to see me. He doesnt think I know about his wedding and is making it look like we just lost touch.

Obviously, I wont see him. He is a trouble maker, a player if that makes any sense. I refused him for that reason. I sensed I would be worrying about him and what he does a bit too much...why put yourself through all that misery?

Im just a bit stunned because the man is married! No, he is not a friend of mine and never was. The word "platonic" is German to this guy. I dont know what to say to him so Im thinking of not even replying. I COULD go into details and tell him Im getting married and all but what would that do? Just open up a line of communication...being married isnt a big deal to someone like him.

Hey Reha,

You're right, I agree with you. You're not even interested in talking to this guy, so there's no need to reply to his email. He's not even a friend......he's just an acquaintance. Although.....it would be HILARIOUS......if you meet up with him.....and he starts flirting with you.....never telling you that he's married.......and making it seem like he's single. Then YOU can put him in his place and watch the color drain from his face as you inform him that you are not only getting happily married, but that you're also aware he's married himself. LOOOOOOOOOOLZ. What a perfect scene for a movie.

He's a married man and he has no business getting in touch with a girl who is only an acquaintance! It is very suspicious that he didn't mention his wedding in the email. Don't email him. It may seem like I'm being paranoid, but you never know how he might react if you send him an email saying that you're getting married. You don't need him or other people talking/spreading malicious rumors about you. Opening a line of communication with him might jeopardize your reputation. In a way, it's sad isn't it? A desi girl's reputation is always more fragile.....the slightest thing can damage it.......whereas guys can get away with much more because society allows it. It's bad enough that being a married guy, he has no qualms about his rep........but it's worse that he doesn't seem to care how this could potentially affect you. And to think his wife has no idea, eeeeew!

As always, Reha, you're on the right track! I totally agree with your decision of not responding to this guy!

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AND I havent! And he got a little persistent! LOL. All my ego needs right now is a married man! :)

Redvelvet Redvelvet

Wherefore art thou Redvelvet?

:)

Hey Reha,

Didn't have internet connection the past two days. But it's back now. My computer has a mind of its own. How are things going with you? So, the guy got persistent? Yikes! I'm guessing he didn't just stop at sending you only one email then, right? That is sooo disturbing. And you know what's sad? I feel so bad for his wife. She's sitting in Lahore waiting for him to return and has no idea that he's trying to get in touch with a girl he barely knows.....and didn't even inform her that's he's married. How messed up! His wife deserves better than his wandering butt!

At your recommendation, I checked out Sense and Sensibility. The past few times I went to the library, it wasn't there. But it was this time. I bought a sweet potato. I've read that they're loaded with nutrients. I only got one to try it out because I've never had it before. And if I like it, I might incorporate it in my diet on a regular basis....to help lose weight and better the condition of my hair and skin. I am DETERMINED. It feels exciting when you have a plan, lol. I just hope I can stick to it!