As I said mall that A-line kameez'es are tapered at the top and will def enhance u're upper back region (which we're avoiding) and anarakli's tend to do the same so these 2 styles u shud stay away from. Full sleeves will work best for u, embellish them with pretty laces to draw attention away from the upper back area. If you have flat hips and long legs you can get straight trousers or capri's that have small slits on either sides.
The kamees shud fall on u're hips and be "snug" but not tight so u have to be carefull. Organza, net, lace or anything that's stiff and requires heavy lining will make u appear heavier.
And to answer u're last question, i'm a freelancer and work for most of the Pakistani Music artists that come down to perform. Sure PM me anytime..
I dunno what is an A line. I mean I cant understand it till i see it. Can anyone of you post an A line kameez pic. I really wanna see so I dun get it stitched that way. Gina, you didnt tell me if pleats can b put on hip area or are they put only on the backside...?? I will PM you soon! thanks a bunch for your services here on GS. they are much appreciated as always :)