Mall, I'd reccomend that you workout on the "target" key area's first and as jalebi said get u're hormones checked as well.
Lawn actually sticks in all the "wrong" places and gives a fleshier look than soft,flowy fabric such as chiffon. If u're upper body is heavy then you shud opt for 2 seperate colors (top & bottom) to give u a balanced look. More importantly it's abt the necklines, collars and cuts of the outfits u get made.
A square "gala" will make u appear broader and a well defined "sweetheart gala" will make u look curvy in all the right places. Stay away from anarkali's and "A-line" kameez'es.
And for anymore information contact me, i'm an image consultant AND based in Dubai. Hope u try the above mentioned tricks! The rest I can give once i've either seen u or a pic.
Thanks Gina... I know you are from Dubai. I have been reading the forums since 2 months. I agree with whatever you said. I dont like square gala either. What is a sweetheart gala and "A-line" kameez. Would really appreciate if you could post some pics of both. I have never tried anarkali or even very long kameez with capris or pants for that matter. I will definitely make one dress. The only prob is I have to wait till Dec before I go to Pak cus I dont like either the cloth or the tailors here in Dubai.
I wanted to ask you all, would a sherwani gala, collar style look gud on me. I have tried collar style but not sherwani. I would really love if you could posr sherwani gala pics and tell me how much should it be in size. I have seen both normal and big size sherwani gala.
Thanks again Gina for the help. Much appreciated.