Re: I am...mad?
SGC I am not saying that he is justified to say whatever he did but if someone is too full of themselves you can only take it for so long before you get sick of their self-obsession. Plus, like in this case, if her behaviour is bringing out the worst in the her guy and making him say bitter stuff to her its probably best to start with re-evaluating herself first. And if thats not where the fault is then I don;t see much point in being with someone who says things to spite you and make u feel lesser.
Excuse me? First of all. There is nothing wrong with my behavior, and he said it matter of factly. I dont THINK he said it to hurt my feelings, but I could be wrong. And I am not self obsessed, even if I am..a little self obsession never hurt anyone. Why is everyone assuming I'm making him say these things to me? This was the first time we ever talked about this, the first time I found out he felt this way.
Okay this is what happened. We were talking generally and ok stupid subject (I KNOW)...and first time we've discussed it. So I said, so why me, you never told me. And he goes, well its not because ur prettier if thats what you're thinking. And I said, well that isnt what I meant but...(im thinking in my head wat an a*s). I didnt say anything but basically thats how it started.