Re: I am...mad?
i mean seriously....what's their to communicate about here. She will ask "do you really think I'm not THAT pretty" then he'll make up some lie to right the wrong or to avoid the confrontation all together.
It'll just make matters worse in my opinion. Not EVERYTHING needs to be discussed.
what i meant is, she needs to let him know he needs to be more sensitive and not just blurt out his first thought- i mean, tact doesn't mean you don't communicate, it means you understand that your offhand comments can hurt the other person and should be curbed or rephrased better. its not about insisting he clarify if he loves her or not- thats already been said and the damage is done- but if they want to continue in this relationship, then moving forward, they need to figure out a better way of talking to each other.