**Today I was watching interview of an addict on Geo who started taking drugs because his girl friend left him and got married to someone else. That was quite shocking for me because I have heard that guys don’t get emotionally involved in these relationships but that person was so much upset that he started ruining his life 
..Have I heard wrong that guys don’t get serious in these relations?
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Have I heard wrong that guys don’t get serious in these relations?
aap ko yeah ghalat itelaa kis ne dee hai. Guys are as emotional as girls can be in a real/serious relationship.
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aap ko yeah ghalat itelaa kis ne dee hai. Guys are as emotional as girls can be in a real/serious relationship.
aik guppie ne :@:
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one word
or sorry.. oen movie title
Darr
have you forgotten SRK and his idiotic kkkkkiran. ?
i know so many guy friends that did all the idiotic over the top dramaqueen things that srk did in that movie just cuz of a girl. 
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Guys are very emotional about their relationships, in fact negatively emotional where they are ready to kill and die. For them, it could be sense of ownership than sense of belonging but nevertheless, where emotionality is due, they get emotional.
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Maybe the misconception about the guys is because they show the emotions after the girl leaves them ;)
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Maybe the misconception about the guys is because they show the emotions after the girl leaves them ;)
Guys do show their 'emotions' during relationip.
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real guys dont have emotions. 
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aik guppie ne :@:
I hope that guppie is not me :P
I am also in the process of researching the emotional level of guy's involvement in relationships... I have seen guys liking a girl but then agreeing to meet a dozens other girls shown to him by his mom coz she wants to marry him with her own choice... I have seen guys getting married according to their mom's choice even though they wanted to marry one particular girl sooo much... but then again, I have also seen guys fighting with their families for the girl of their own choice and marrying her...
but I have not seen guys becoming MAJNOO in this age.. they keep on eating, hanging out, enjoying their life while waiting for the situation to be in their favour... I guess educated guys behave in a more composed manner...
Girls have no problem in showing their emotions... we can declare that we keep on thinking about that particular guy 24/7... but I wonder guys can be as involved to keep on thinking about their girls every second... they must have this in mind... wo achi larki hai... wo larki mil gayi tau theek warna aur bohot larkian hain dunia main :P
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Guys do show their 'emotions' during relationip.
Showing emotions is a different thing and having EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT is a different thing... girls become emotionally attached to a guy very soon and can be heartbroken if anything goes wrong in the way... that is why girls are found to be complaining more when they do not get to talk to the guy and when they are unable to meet the guy coz they miss them...
guys take time to become emotionally attached to a girl... I guess only the time will tell how serious a guy is in a relationship... if he is persistent in a relationship despite all the hurdles and is not willing to quit, we can say that he is serious... but then again, only time can tell... whereas for girls, everyone can tell from the beginning that they are truly involved in a guy ;)
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Too much drama.
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Showing emotions is a different thing and having EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT is a different thing... girls become emotionally attached to a guy very soon and can be heartbroken if anything goes wrong in the way... that is why girls are found to be complaining more when they do not get to talk to the guy and when they are unable to meet the guy coz they miss them...
guys take time to become emotionally attached to a girl... I guess only the time will tell how serious a guy is in a relationship... if he is persistent in a relationship despite all the hurdles and is not willing to quit, we can say that he is serious... but then again, only time can tell... whereas for girls, everyone can tell from the beginning that they are truly involved in a guy ;)
Actually, research suggests that men are quicker to fall in love than women, that women are more careful. North American research, though.
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^It may be about not showing the affection though. Stupid society!!
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Actually, research suggests that men are quicker to fall in love than women, that women are more careful. North American research, though.
yup.. men are quicker to fall in love and even more quicker to back out :P
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So what did that research said regarding break ups?
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^ its always the guy's fault..lol
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I was just reading about this study they did, which showed that men can be just as emotionally attached if not more than women. It's just the way they express is different from women.
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srsly?
everyone shows emotions one way or another. A broken heart/sadness affects both men and women. Men just want to hide it more since some think it is not masculine to show that you are very serious in a certain relation.
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*Random but.....this reminds me of a Pakistani drama i watched yesterday.
Malal - a must watch!
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*Random but.....this reminds me of a Pakistani drama i watched yesterday. Malal - a must watch! *
ARY drama DAAM was also gud to know how emotional guys can be when in a relationship or when in love... I am talking about the character of Junaid who is unable to forget his gf even after 7 years of his difficult marriage to a stubborn lady which he just did under pressure from his father n sister (his wife is his sister's sis in law)... and cud not resist his emotions when he accidently finds his girl in life again...