Even though chacha and chachi did whatever they could do best for him after he lost his parents, there might have been a 'gap' which he must have felt.
We may not know what kind of relation he had with chacha and chachi.
Not uncommon to see unusual behaviours like this when people feel something is missing or empty. Not materially but something beyond.
He is in need for combination of real human love and some strictness. I am sure chacha/chachi can be helpful but a close friend is needed the most.
I have seen very well off person thinking of becoming porn-star/stud and eventually become even tableeghi/religious with good guidance and company.
Exactly what Shiraz is thinking right now.. he wants to help him... sit down with him and explain him... but the problem is he doesnt listen plus they dont get to see each other v often.....
Exactly what Shiraz is thinking right now.. he wants to help him... sit down with him and explain him... but the problem is he doesnt listen plus they dont get to see each other v often.....
Whatever time his friend can devote is good.
Saving one person is saving humanity.
It may take time and must not expect result in couple of days.
It reali is a big job.... oh well i will try my best to help him!
Good luck and keep us posted if you can. He may have whats called bipolar disorder. Going on fun stuff too much and then caput...depressed/locked up in house in a few weeks or days.
Good luck and keep us posted if you can. He may have whats called bipolar disorder. Going on fun stuff too much and then caput...depressed/locked up in house in a few weeks or days.
Hes not like that trust me... Kheir i will try my best ... will keep u guyz updated!
Honestly, rather than making this an issue of piety-which turns most of us off-just be a solid friend. That means don't enable or clean up his messes, don't preach or judge but most importantly, support him in endeavors that are ethically based-self improvement, care for fam, introspection. Most people go through their paces or pass through stages and come out alright.
We as a community need to be waaaay less judgemental-it's disrespectful to all involved.
Exactly what Shiraz is thinking right now.. he wants to help him... sit down with him and explain him... but the problem is he doesnt listen plus they dont get to see each other v often.....
If Shiraz repents sincerely and resolves to never go back to drinking, he will be forgiven inshAllah taala.
As for trying to get someone out of a mess, you first have to make your imaan 10 times strong so you dont fall into peer pressure. It would be better that Shiraz leaves waseem's company until he finds himself strong enough to try to show someone the correct path. There is nothing WORST than a bad company.
