Re: Hypocrisy in men
Everything you said GOGO is true, only if others can pay some heed.
Re: Hypocrisy in men
This is so much BS!
Allah swt has not given permission to the men to do whatever they want to the women if they're not dressed according to His laws!!
Hijaab or no hijaab, each of us need to do what the right thing to do is. Period.
What jerks are men who think their lustful gazes are justified because the woman isn't dressed according to the strict rules of Shariah.
;6418773']I don't like being stared at, but I have better things to take care of then them silly bafoons. They are doing no harm to you but themselves. Ignore, walk away and pray that Allah give them hidaya. Simple.
Well said. Eyes are door to mind and heart. When this door is opened to dirt (behayai) all this dirt enters the mind and heart and pollutes them. Then a polluted mind would always fancy polluted thoughts (Adultery) and a polluted heart would always wish to commit those acts of adultery.
Opening eyes to dirt is the first step towards adultery, that is why Allah (swt) orders us to lower our gaze when we come across any behayai.
This is so much BS! Allah swt has not given permission to the men to do whatever they want to the women if they're not dressed according to His laws!!
Hijaab or no hijaab, each of us need to do what the right thing to do is. Period.
What jerks are men who think their lustful gazes are justified because the woman isn't dressed according to the strict rules of Shariah.
Thanks for calling majority of the human race a JERK.
Your use of acronym BS with All mighty in the same sentence shows who is the bigger jerk and also it says a lot about how NAIVE you really are about Islam.
No one said anything about following strict rules of Shariah because strict followers of Shariah don't let their women go out....period.
We are talking about how today's women are dressed or not dressed in public.
This is so much BS! Allah swt has not given permission to the men to do whatever they want to the women if they're not dressed according to His laws!!
Hijaab or no hijaab, each of us need to do what the right thing to do is. Period.
What jerks are men who think their lustful gazes are justified because the woman isn't dressed according to the strict rules of Shariah.
Well said.
Oh and 'Crime Master GOGO' u shouldn't be watching Bollywood films with uncovered women dancing around half dressed and singing (I'm assuming u do seeing as tho u've chosen a username named after a Bollywood character) then coming onto here and lecturing people on these things. That's also hypocrisy.
Thanks for calling majority of the human race a JERK.
Your use of acronym BS with All mighty in the same sentence shows who is the bigger jerk and also it says a lot about how NAIVE you really are about Islam.
No one said anything about following strict rules of Shariah because strict followers of Shariah don't let their women go out....period.
We are talking about how today's women are dressed or not dressed in public.
You're right about that, it sounds super wrong of me. Thanks for pointing it out.
Well said.
Oh and 'Crime Master GOGO' u shouldn't be watching Bollywood films with uncovered women dancing around half dressed and singing (I'm assuming u do seeing as tho u've chosen a username named after a Bollywood character) then coming onto here and lecturing people on these things. That's also hypocrisy.
I don't watch Bollywood or any other type of movies. My wife said that she liked this name, because it is very funny. I just kept it as nick without asking her its back ground.
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Deeba with that logic, no human would ever want to do good in life because 'they've sinned at least once in their life'! C'mon woman, relating his user name to this thread is super duper far-stretched.
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His views are ridiculously extreme, the username does not go with the super strict image he is portraying on here. To say no woman will get stared out or harassed if she wears hijab and is fullly covered is obviously not true, I have seen it happen many many many times.
You're right about that, it sounds super wrong of me. Thanks for pointing it out.
You know, you just gained sooo much respect in my heart and in the heart of anyone reading this thread by accepting your mistake.
I am really impressed and I apologize for calling you JERK indirectly.
Regards
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Listen, not the entire world is familiar with every movie of bollywood. So, when I looked at his name, I made no connection to bollywood. So, it's all in our perceptions - you could have taken it as what it is or you could have started associating it with bollywood. You did the latter. So keep his character/intentions out of your perceptions.
Aside from that I agree with you wholeheartedly.
You know, you just gained sooo much respect in my heart and in the heart of anyone reading this thread by accepting your mistake.
I am really impressed and I apologize for calling you JERK indirectly.
Regards
I am already embarassed about the mistake dude, no need to embarass me further.
But thanks. You gave me a reality check for sure.
To say no woman will get stared out or harassed if she wears hijab and is fullly covered is obviously not true, I have seen it happen many many many times.
Please mention the post where I said this ? If in case I had said it somewhere and don't remember it, then please forgive me for my insane remarks. I sure was out of my mind when I said that, though I don't remember it due to my weak memory. May Allah (swt) forgive me.
Aree crime-master bhai, i was joking about your 'crimes' comment.
Yes, Gals and Boys, MEN shudnt LUST at women inrespective they r in hijab or not.
But as mr.gogo correctly and others defined the wrongeness of mens gazing, i was portraying the other side of the issue which is relevant.
Im not suporting men who 'gaze'.
Im just conveying the aspects which make it harder for men to resist temptation to obey this rule of 'lowering gaze'.
Yes its a wrong thing, but the point here is that if both men and women co-operated in modesty rules, the mutual goal would be easier to arrive at.
Im sorry but no matter how much decent and nice i may be, i am not going to be a hypcocrite and say that If Anjelina Jolie was walking on the street opposite to mine, with a tight crop-top and mini skirt, that i wont not 'stare' at her.
She is so beautful why shudnt i look at her. Im not doing major sin just by gazing am i?
Get the point?
Kapish
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I Love Anjelina Jolie
Listen, not the entire world is familiar with every movie of bollywood. So, when I looked at his name, I made no connection to bollywood. So, it's all in our perceptions - you could have taken it as what it is or you could have started associating it with bollywood. You did the latter. So keep his character/intentions out of your perceptions.
Aside from that I agree with you wholeheartedly.
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I Love Anjelina Jolie
whoever she is If you are not married yet, you may send your elders for her rishta. There is nothing wrong in marrying someone you wish to marry :)
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Please mention the post where I said this ? If in case I had said it somewhere and don't remember it, then please forgive me for my insane remarks. I sure was out of my mind when I said that, though I don't remember it due to my weak memory. May Allah (swt) forgive me.
I'm sorry CMGG, I made a mistake and mistook someone else's words for yours.
*'You see men look at women because women want them to look at them in lusty way.
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I can almost guarantee you if you go out dressed properly (Islamic way), no man would look at you.'
Pls accept my apology.
whoever she is If you are not married yet, you may send your elders for her rishta. There is nothing wrong in marrying someone you wish to marry :)
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Man you are too funny.....