Husbands who taunt wife about her family

sadia18 · December 30, 2013, 5:19pm

Re: Husbands who taunt wife about her family

I don’t think you should hide your family from your husband. They have as much right to frequent your home and visit you and their grandkids. This whole, meeting them in private so hubby wont get mad, is just being a doormat and letting him get away with his crap comments.

He doesn’t like them? Too bad, deal with it. They’re your wife’s family, muster up the tameez to be polite for an afternoon so they can visit their daughter and their grandkids.

Doesn’t make sense - this mentality of - if you’re the girl, and your inlaws give you problems - solution: keep your mouth shut;
if your husband gives you problems about HIS inlaws - solution: keep your mouth shut.

You can keep it shut for small issues, but if your own spouse is crossing boundaries, they need to be told to be respectful, and try to get along.

The same, btw, goes for guys and their problems with the wife not getting along with his parents - you can dislike someone, and you can draw your own boundaries, but no one has any right to say rude things about someone else’s family members. That’s just stupid.

Wow!! Best advice yet. Completely agree tbh