Re: husbands intrest
nah - actually i heard it from another friend .. that some1 she knows started flirting with another guy on seeing her hubby .s divided attention . so after sometime he realised and turned back to her :)
yea but it may not always work…what if it back fires 
she must be knowing that it would work in her case
Rida,
if he is only looking then I have to say this...
ALL men look and if any man tells you that he doesn't he is a liar!
Sorry but aise kehna ghalt ho ga. Ye sara-sar bukwaas hai, jhoot hai, ilzaam hai.
Sorry but aise kehna ghalt ho ga. Ye sara-sar bukwaas hai, jhoot hai, ilzaam hai.
jee bilkul - murd bhut shareef hotay hain :p
Re: husbands intrest
I agree with AE and also
You have to find out the reason WHY he is doing so.
How long have you guys been married?
You have to see the whole picture ...is he looking for excitement...what and why is it happenening? I am not saying that YOU are to be blamed for his behavior but at the same time i do believe that it takes two to make or break the relatonship. You have to do your own investigative work...and then see how it can be alleviated...also if it is to be alleviated or not? That is really important for your own sanity and esteem.
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by default to shareeef he hotai hai ..ub gals kharab ker dainn to us ka pata hai :p
what does ur hubby find interesting in these girls? find out and talk to him and see what he likes and doesnt like…
or Mayb u r just trying too hard, ease off for a bit and play hard to get..
i say “treat them mean keep them keen”.
Re: husbands intrest
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Re: husbands intrest
IDK...it seems to me like alot of the suggestions here are simply "mind games"...something that most of the time doesnt work with guys. They actually despise the thought. And please excuse if I'm being presumptive here but IMHO, guys are literal and literally honest and they get confused with all of this mind game stuff. When you're honest, even if you're brutally honest, they tend to understand and appreciate that so much more than all of these confusing girly games yeah? Guys dont understand it most of the time.
If your man is straying, confront him with it, not in a beetchy way but in a way that lets him know that you dont like it, dont approve of it, dont appreciate it. And you want to know why this behavior is happening. Can I do something more/less/different...whats the prob?
When you approach problems in a way that they understand and can relate to, their respect for you will instantly increase. When you play these "unfathomable" girly games, they get angry, more confused and resentful.
Play it honestly and openly.
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My response was dead serious though.
Why should a woman start feeling insecure about herself if her man has got loose morals? Sutble appreciation of the opposite sex is ok, but if he's doing it openly, she should do the same. And please, for once take the reponsibility of finding a solution off a woman's shoulder. If he's got the issues, he should be the one fixing them.
What should a women do if she finds that her husband is taking intrest in other girl she is loving caring and take good care of her self for her husband what should she do now if her husband is running away from her to another girl....?plz plz plz help
define 'taking interest in another girl" ?
do u mean having an affair with someone else? or just looking?
define 'taking interest in another girl" ?
do u mean having an affair with someone else? or just looking?
Yeah, before rambling on, I should have asked this question!
Re: husbands intrest
what a crazy solution... take care of urself.. if that was the case than every woman who didnt look like a model.. didnt have a man...
these kind of guys a very simple and rather dumb.. just get him involved with you a lot lot lot more.. ask him for favors.. thats an ego boost for them.. tell him u need him ..share your problems with him.. and ask for his input.. just keep him busy with you and he will forget abt her...let him kno that u need him and appreciate him... that's what satisfies their ego.. and they need to satisfy their ego..
samad! plz! drama mat karo! 
What should a women do if she finds that her husband is taking intrest in other girl she is loving caring and take good care of her self for her husband what should she do now if her husband is running away from her to another girl....?plz plz plz help
Okay, Ive got a few suggestions...
If you're already taking care of yourself and making efforts to look nice then I dont need to tell you that. However, sometimes an updated look doesnt hurt. Meaning, change your look a little bit. This is just so you can feel better about yourself and lessen some of the insecurity you might be feeling right now. You're beautiful and attractive, you should feel that way. Its not necessarily for him.
If you get agitated when he pays attention to other women, stop it immediately. Dont pay attention to it because its extremely immature/insincere behavior on his part and NOT worth an iota of notice. When you get upset, it shows. You're above these petty little things and better then that.
When you have a chance, sit down and talk to him openly about his behavior. Tell him plainly that it doesnt bother you but other people are beginning to notice it and it makes him look ridiculous. If he wants to be the laughing stock of his social circle, he can continue but you're not going to be covering up for his antics. Its not your responsibility and he will be answering for his behavior, not you.
Other then that Rida, pay attention to your relationship. Sometimes men do these things because women shut them out. NO, Im not saying what he is doing is right. By the same token, if this behavior progresses make sure you're aware, not the last one to know and do something about it.
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hmm what is interest here?
Rida,
if he is only looking then I have to say this...
ALL men look and if any man tells you that he doesn't he is a liar! Some men will look at other women right in front of their significant others thus making it obvious (these men are total losers) and some men will look subtly because they do not want to hurt the feelings of their significant others..then there are those that are trying hard not to look (perhaps for religious reasons) but they still have the urge to....and they glance every now and then.
Now....if your man is paying too much attention to another girl...meaning it is gone beyond just "eye candy"...then you have a problem!
Firstly, whatever you do... DO NOT show him that you are jealous. Be confident in yourself (even if you are not...fake it) Let him know (by the things you say and the things you do) that you are the best thing for him and no other woman can treat him better. Do not show him that you are insecure, self conscious and/or jealous. some men take advantage of this.
secondly, if he is disrespecting you by taking interest in another woman right in front of you.....ignore it! Address this issue at some other time....not right then and there.
Hate to say this but....some men are just losers and they want to make their women jealous....dont fall for it!
one more thing....of course addressing this issue is the key factor but you have to do so strategically. Like I said above...be confident in yourself (no crying or getting jealous)...let him know how you feel. If he cares for you he will put an end to it...if he doesnt then it's his loss not yours.
Good advice. Only thing I will like to add is that - if talking directly fails, try bringing elder's into this to sort things out (sometime you need a mediator).
I am just throwing an idea - don't know if its suitable for you? You can try talking directly to the girl to cut it cold and move away. I am sure, guy won't like it - but if the girl have some decensy....