What should a women do if she finds that her husband is taking intrest in other girl she is loving caring and take good care of her self for her husband what should she do now if her husband is running away from her to another girl…?plz plz plz help
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start paying attention to ur self …ignore him for som time …dont show him lik u r getting teased by ths all … somtimes ths happend when gals wont tak care of themselves n their dressing .. in result there husbs ignore thm … somtimes things happen lik … they gained weight .. bla bla bla bla …
wht u really need is to jst pay attention to ur self I hop everything will b alright sooooohn 
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completely agreed wth [EMAIL="Drk@ngt"]Drk@ngt!!!
start taking care of urself rather then ur hubby, try to be more presentable, be upto date and refects the latest styles, take gud care of ur figure as men are blind and they just run for the beauty appearantly 1st and then anything else
things will start working in ur favour soon Inshallah
one more tip is that start reading "Ya Wadudu" this is one of the names of Allah SWT that means "Who Loves You" and it is recited for increasing love b/w husband and wife. there is a proper way to read this name n how many times shud it be read. I dont remember properly right now, If u r intreasted in reading then lemme kno, i will find it out for u n will let u kno
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a sad case :-(
a'udhu billahi minash-shaytanir-rajim
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I think she needs to be aggressive in letting him know that she cannot tolerate that. Stop being sweety and loving and caring!
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^ i agree it's not on and its not acceptable - he married her she is looking after him taking care of him what more can she do (the girls he is looking at do not give a F*** bout him) (sorry it just gets me so angry)
one more tip is that start reading "Ya Wadudu" this is one of the names of Allah SWT that means "Who Loves You" and it is recited for increasing love b/w husband and wife. there is a proper way to read this name n how many times shud it be read. I dont remember properly right now, If u r intreasted in reading then lemme kno, i will find it out for u n will let u kno
^ Ya Wadudu, 1000 times on some sweet thing like sugar. Both husband and wife should eat.. Dont forget to recite Awal o Aakhir Darood Sharif, 3 3 times..
That will make the process of driving him away from her faster.
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Rida, this is a sad thing and I'm sorry to read about it. Since you said that you have been taking care of yourself and your husband I dont see that the advice to dress better and take better care of yourself is really applicable here. I think its a good thing to continue taking good care of yourself, your appearance and your husband, thats what a good wife does. And if you stop taking good care of your husband like Mirch said - it could drive him away faster.
The best thing to do is talk to your husband. Communicate. Let him know that you are working hard to be a good wife and he needs to work hard to be a good husband. And looking at other girls does not qualify in the good husband category. Have a nice long chat with him and let him know that his behavior has been upsetting to you.
I think it’s unfair she shold tread on eggshells block her feelings just in case he might leave her so unfair…
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She should get even. Show open interest in some hunky hunk around him!
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Rida, I agree with MO3 here. Being aggressive or revengeful at this time may not help but in fact make things worse. Increase your communication with him. If you are aware of a specific problem, bring it up and discuss it. Avoid nagging because it could turn him away more. If you feel there have been any strains in your relationship in the recent past, try to figure them out and how to solve them.
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Rida - it may help to know what is he finding in the other girl. Is it attention? Is the chase?
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i would talk to him, he would have decide btw me or the girl. i wouldnt want to waste time trying to get him back. if he's happy with her, then ill leave.
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while you do that, take good care of your self.
Always look good and stuff. No need to back down on any front.
Rida,
if he is only looking then I have to say this...
ALL men look and if any man tells you that he doesn't he is a liar! Some men will look at other women right in front of their significant others thus making it obvious (these men are total losers) and some men will look subtly because they do not want to hurt the feelings of their significant others..then there are those that are trying hard not to look (perhaps for religious reasons) but they still have the urge to....and they glance every now and then.
Now....if your man is paying too much attention to another girl...meaning it is gone beyond just "eye candy"...then you have a problem!
Firstly, whatever you do... DO NOT show him that you are jealous. Be confident in yourself (even if you are not...fake it) Let him know (by the things you say and the things you do) that you are the best thing for him and no other woman can treat him better. Do not show him that you are insecure, self conscious and/or jealous. some men take advantage of this.
secondly, if he is disrespecting you by taking interest in another woman right in front of you.....ignore it! Address this issue at some other time....not right then and there.
Hate to say this but....some men are just losers and they want to make their women jealous....dont fall for it!
one more thing....of course addressing this issue is the key factor but you have to do so strategically. Like I said above...be confident in yourself (no crying or getting jealous)...let him know how you feel. If he cares for you he will put an end to it...if he doesnt then it's his loss not yours.
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u mgt need to dress up in a decent way ..or tora ikhlaaaq b acha ker lainn … everyting will b fine soon
She should get even. Show open interest in some hunky hunk around her!
:D
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^ so agree with that
Though on a serious note talk to him. I personally feel a lot of relationships would improve if people just communicated with each other. Have you told him how you feel if you haven't then you should but do not nag. Also like a lot of the people said above improve yourself it doesn't just mean appearance etc but improve your confidence within yourself because it shows with the outlook in life. I strongly believe in women being independent ad relying on themselves because in the long run it is advantageous for the women.
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^ this a marriage we are talking about here...not some high school fling. pretty immature to do that if you ask me.
i once (in an old thread) joked about that once 2 tho :D