Re: Husband
The most important thing in a marriage is the relationship, if there is no love and caring and financial goals are achieved, that is not an accomplishment. A man is required to make his wife feel special on a daily basis. People should not take each other for granted. All my western friends know that they need to continually work on the relationship but not my desi friends. Do you think it is greed or insecurity, can you have a heart to heart with him. It feels like he is trying to secure your and the children’s future. Ask him what worries him.
My VP lived a very frugal life, his juniors drove shiny new cars and him an old van, they vacationed in 5 stars and him camping. He surprised everyone by retiring at 50. But his wife was fully supportive of him. They just have such a beautiful relationship and their eyes sparkle when they look at each other and have raised great kids. No amount of money can buy that.