my hubby is not like that. he would love the Food and say Nice stuff about it but then he would talk about Our Finances and how important it is to stick to Our Budget if I have spent way too much Money. But I Guess I need so sit alone With the Budget and find ways to change it somehow. During all the years of pregnancy and after-birth baby years I have been so tired that I have outsourced all this Budget stuff to him and he ahs become to controlling about it. time to regain some Control back. after all I contribute With half of the Money in the household!!!