Re: Husband
Marriage is a big deal and after you have children your identity is sort of lost anyways, it is not only you who sacrifices. Husbands and fathers do also. A proper mindset is to see things as blessings which you are seeing as sacrifices. You moving abroad is a blessing, having an opportunity to raise kids rather than focusing on your clothing is a blessing. Adults cant be glued to their birth families and moving away is a growth opportunity. Your husband has a legal, moral and ethical responsibility to stop you from yelling at kids you should be happy that he s preventing you from destroying you children’s life. Try not focusing on yourself b your family. People talk, they taunt, they gossip ad immature people pay heed to it We have a very young tall, blonde, blue eyed co worker and there is a lot of animosity towards her and he just laughs it of.
Look for positive reinforcement and love from with in yourself and your family and screw everyone else.
that has been approach untill now. I am just tired and exhausted. And I just wish my husband could learn to take care of my feelings too and not just enforce his logical argumentation on me all the time be it Budget, spending Money or anything else.