Marriage is a big deal and after you have children your identity is sort of lost anyways, it is not only you who sacrifices. Husbands and fathers do also. A proper mindset is to see things as blessings which you are seeing as sacrifices. You moving abroad is a blessing, having an opportunity to raise kids rather than focusing on your clothing is a blessing. Adults cant be glued to their birth families and moving away is a growth opportunity. Your husband has a legal, moral and ethical responsibility to stop you from yelling at kids you should be happy that he s preventing you from destroying you children’s life. Try not focusing on yourself b your family. People talk, they taunt, they gossip ad immature people pay heed to it We have a very young tall, blonde, blue eyed co worker and there is a lot of animosity towards her and he just laughs it of.
Look for positive reinforcement and love from with in yourself and your family and screw everyone else.