Husband

[Chameli420]

Re: Husband

@SaadiaB

You are earning our own money, so why have you stopped spending on yourself. He can save his money if he wants but if you want to buy things here and there, he should accept this. Dont give up on these small pleasures, its your right after all you are working hard. Maybe try to ignore him or his moods, if he asks you why u bought something, tell him you needed it bas! There are some men, who think saving is the only way, which I understand, if you want to buy something big like a house/car then u need ot save, but if u are not spending lavisly and spending wise, he should not have a problem with it.

We saved a lot before buying the house. really a lot. now he wants to save in the same way and pay the morgage faster so that we dont have a loan left when the kids are teenagers. But it is in the same period that we have to enjoy living life, to travel and have leisure activities. Now he has made a Budget for 2016 and if I say a Word that goes against the Budget we have agreed on he panicks. Come on we are 2 adult persons and we can agree on a Budget and then change the priorities if needed. But if he has to buy something he finds necessary i.e some special wardrobes and wardrobe interior he goes out of his way to get it. and if I mention that I am looking into buying some clothes online from Pakistan he typically comments in a way that I dont feel like doing it anymore…