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then why not take a walk at a reasonable hour and not at night
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PAHELI- he wasnt at home, he saw me as he was coming home from work.
and ok i get it. but it wasnt dark and reason being almost 7pm- cos its less humid and bit cooler to go out. and only my husband has an issue with it. no one else.
Firstly, look at the bright side.....no one else (ie. your MIL!) had an issue with you going out on the road! This is a complete opposite of what you told us befoer which was that you were not allowed to go outside on your own. So the fact that your MIL didn't throw a fit over you going outside onto the road is a big positive.
Secondly, next time you want to take a walk....do it during the daytime. I live in a very hot/humid city too so I understand the weather concern. So until the weather cools down...take your walks in the morning....between 8-11 a.m. Plus I imagine at that time, you husband is just beginning his day at work so the chances of him seeing you is slim to none.
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Does ur hasband know u write all this here? Why hasnt he figured your nick out so far or your saas?
which brings me to an idea for a thread.Thanks.
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at the moment, gupshup is a haven for me. and yes i may make people go mad, in reality im perfectly normaL. YOU would never ever believe it was me here if you ever met me. i keep things to myself in real ife. but here i can be ME, and vent. and you guys are kind of like my friends, who can give me unnbiased advice and alot ALOT of critiscism, which by the wya i have never minded and always come back for more.....so ....whatever. !
Life and relationship would have no life without your threads so keep it up, appreciate what you like ignore what you don't.
And seriously this rule can stretch to "real life".
One more thing, always try to understand the person before interpreting his words, words are not always a good reflection of the intent.
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then why not take a walk at a reasonable hour and not at night
"reasonable hour" is found only in the hour glass
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Rolla Coaster Urf BeJamalo
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OR… Mil didnt say anything cuz she KNEW her son wouldnt like this and tell nadzz off… She wanting that.. Didnt speak up and sat and watched tje drama with popcorn.
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like this 
Husband.
Nadz - first of you need to get rid of a few of your notions. One, that what ever you say here we will always tell you it's wrong. It's not always wrong and we have supported you in threads in which you are on the right.
Secondly - you do what to go out & have a life and it's understandable how frustrating it can be for you to stay home all time, have to ask husband to take you everywhere who isn't always available and that you are used to your independence from UK.
Thirdly, going out alone at a later time in Peshawar isn't really a sensible thing to do. I don't go out without my husband after 8-9 pm even in UK let alone any other place. If you have to go, meet up people in day time. Get to know your neighbors, ask around on GS which Guppans are from Peshawar and meet up with them, go shopping with someone. If you can drive, then do so else ask your husband to get a driver for you guys I'd he isn't available himself.
It's not as hard as you think. Just take it easy and stop self pitying yourself that the worse happens with you.
Husband.
Just tell him up straight; 'im not a five year old that you can speak to me as such. Tell me what the problem is?'
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Just tell him up straight; 'im not a five year old that you can speak to me as such. Tell me what the problem is?'
He will probably say "Don't act like a five year old and I won't treat you as such".
I don't think there are many five year olds in pakistan who don't know NOT to walk on the roads alone at nighttime
Nadz, my FATHER and BROTHER were mobbed a street from our house, at gunpoint cos Dad would go on walks with Brother. AT GUNPOINT. And this is Lahore.
You are in PESHAWAR. It is WORSE. And you are a girl.
Husband.
Why dont we let him answer that? He still hasn't bothered to explain to her why hes angry. He owes her that much.
Even if it was for all the reasons you say, thats not usually how you show your concern... Being rude and then sulking? I somehow think safety was the least of his concerns.
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according to nadz (from her other threads) her hubby is okay with her going out, shopping, etc in the morning. i guess he didnt expect her to come out on the street in the evening especially when everyone knows it is not safe. i guess he thought you wont get the message unless he uses a firm voice. nadz, maybe you should talk to him and see what he has to say and what you have to say to him.
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Pakistan is a man's country, get used to it
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Nadz!! I understand you!! 
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Pakistan is a man's country, get used to it
Who is this man? Does he have a daughter I can marry? I'm looking to marry into money.
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not all [desi] men know how to express themselves in a gentlemanly fashion..he probably got worked up and cared enough for your safety that he yelled at you. his delivery might not have been the best but what he said was for your own good. it is up to you to make him realize that.
sounds like you are newly married. it will work out with time.
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lol you would think so huh?
sadly shes been married for a few years now.
I'm amused the newly weds are advising nadz
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If she could learn out of her mistakes , she would be a GENIUS by now :D
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lol you would think so huh? sadly shes been married for a few years now.
I'm amused the newly weds are advising nadz
you are no even married and you advise her. So point being?