Re: husband wife secret....
Anil, Dope--that's pretty sad if you go into marriage thinking ur wife will not hesitate to screw you over the first chance she gets and deserves less love and respect htan your mother. If that's how you feel about the opposite sex, then you're both better off alone than to make some poor grl miserable.
You should be able to share major things with your parents if you wish to, that's your right; however what's offensive is how you feel your wife deserves any less love and respect than your mother. It's really sad that desi guys seem to think being loyal and loving to thier wife means you're slapping ur mother in th face (figuratively, speaking). Mother and wife are two different women, they have different responsibilities and duties towards you but both are equally deserving of your love.
Believe it or not, a woman is capable of providing unconditional love to her husband. I've had nasty experiences with guys but I don't go around thinking every single one of em is a secret rapist or pervert.