Re: husband wife secret....
I've seen a lot in my twenty years and I know what it means to respect parents and to give them every importance. Hiding major issues from them is a slap in the face. I still say if its important to tell you're wife its important to tell your parents. InshAllah I have every intention of keeping my parents very close to me and I WILL NOT let my wife dictate what I should and shouldn't tell them. My parents come FIRST and she SECOND.
I've said my peace,
Allah Nigeban