Re: husband wife secret....
Please read my previous post where I explain that certain private things are normally kept between a husband and wife. My main points were that **major **decisions should be consulted with the parents and should not be kept a secret. Now, I'm not saying listen to your parents like a 12 year old would but rather take their advice, consider it and then make a decision.
Playing games of hide and seek are only going to hurt the parents when the truth comes out. Keep everything in the open, and life will go smoothly.
:)