Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
nadz123 was rite! Never leave u're husband unattended!
Sorry for blowing off steam MB. No offence intended.
Re: Husband watching something inappropriate online?
We should consider the inherent differences here between maleand female before we get too upset over this.
Men are visual creatures. Images turn them on.
Women are more emotional creatures. Feelings turn them on.
Women tend to enjoy sex most when they feel emotionally attached and connected to their partner. Men just need a good sexy image and theyre ready to go.
Try to remember that you cant change the basic nature of any creature. You can temper it, you can add "frills" and requirements, you can tame it bit. But its there. And alwys will be.
Try to remember that you cant change the basic nature of any creature. You can temper it, you can add "frills" and requirements, you can tame it bit. But its there. And alwys will be.
tell me about it :(
We should consider the inherent differences here between maleand female before we get too upset over this.
Men are visual creatures. Images turn them on.
Women are more emotional creatures. Feelings turn them on.
Women tend to enjoy sex most when they feel emotionally attached and connected to their partner. Men just need a good sexy image and theyre ready to go.
Try to remember that you cant change the basic nature of any creature. You can temper it, you can add "frills" and requirements, you can tame it bit. But its there. And alwys will be.
Ditto, golden words... i learn something new today. Thanks !...
women will never understand
men separate love and sex, a mans heart is completely seperate from his p***s
where as for most women the 2 are linked
Blown out of proportion
I think this was the porno that the husband was caught watching
oh it is an addiction
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indeed
What if the wife was caught watching porn?
HAHAHAHAHA!
I was talking with a close friend and she told me that she caught her husband watching something he shouldnt have been watching online. She was so shocked and freaked about it because in her mind there wasn't a need for it since she thought they had quite a healthy relationship. I just told her that it wasn't a reflection on her abilities but maybe her husband did this before marriage and just wrongly continued the bad habit. Maybe he had some secret fantasy which she couldn't perform on him. I, for once, didn't have anything better to say!
I mean, I thought the whole point of marriage was to do these things the "Halal" way in a respectful and modest way. Why do so many men have to resort to these outlets of immodesty?
Has anyone experienced this before with their husbands? What was your reaction and how did you deal with it?
Also, this doesn't have to stop at husbands. Could be siblings, children etc. For me, my biggest concern is if my children (which I hope to have once Iam married) watch something X-rated online having accidentally stumbled onto it. How would their fragile minds cope with seeing something so graphic?
I don't want to offend anyone or get banned people! It is just a genuine concern which we shouldn't just "brush under the carpet".
Might have educating himself
I think this was the porno that the husband was caught watching
it cud be religious lecture wife thinks it's inappropriate
This hasnt got to do with him not being satisfied by his wife...its a fantasy or he just doesnt allways want to ask her for action ;) anyhow i still dont approve but i cud understand y people do this...
Its human nature and also girl could do this.
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There are many physical negative effects of watching such things......
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it has absolutely nothing to do with being satisfied or not being satisfied
i know a girl who was about to be divorced have a mashallah stable family now also had the same issue, but when i told her a few things or two..... she discovered that its his nature to watch such stuff... whether internet or movies!!!! she said he comes home from work and its a must to watch all that... but i am ok with her as hes ok with me :)
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seems like a dulhan-to-be is digging out educational material from archives and somebody brought popcors but got all genders mixed up!
WHy is it any of our business what married people do in the privacy of their own home?
Now in the situation in the original post.....they may watch porn just for fn. sometimes men may have fantasies that they cannot (and will not) fulfill in real life.
Protecting your children from pornography and the impact pornography can have on a relationship are two totally different things.
Sara, as usual you have a sane approach.
Men and women think differently.
If other married men are watching porn and if it is not affecting their married life negatively, let them do it. It does not cause a revolting feeling in my stomach thinking what or why other men are doing it. I think it is pretty normal for men to watch porn.
On the other hand, I do get sickening feeling when I see women watching horrible soaps on the TV and I think that to be sick.
Someone asked what if you catch your wife watching porn. I completely respect my wife's individuality and never sneak on her. never. She is my wife and not my slave. Whatever she does in her own time, is her own choice.
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Men just like to watch that stuff while women think about that stuff.
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What is it with digging up old threads and those too with dodgy topics 
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