Thank you MixedBeauty - I believe i said the same thing but ended up ruffling some feathers. I agree with everything except for “I dont know WHY people are saying she shudnt of told her) Thats what friends are for and i for one have discussed things with my friends have got advice. Its natural that she was shocked because obviously her husband has been hiding it (Who knows?) Thats why she feels hurt”
If the husband hid it from the wife, he didn’t want her to find out. Doesn’t take a genius to comprehend that he would be really pissed if he found out that his wife has shared this info. with her friend.