I know plently of pakistani muslims, who are indeed addicted to drinking alchohol and have also been a addict to drugs. Have done numerous things with women. But just because were muslim doesnt stop us from being Human. No one is defending porn, But theres no issue in porn either. If you watch it once in a blue moon, then who cares?
As long as your not watching vile things like child porn (then thats a police issue) However Adult porn is not a issue. Again back to the main topic, Stardust your friend obviously is upset and confided in you (I dont know WHY people are saying she shudnt of told her) Thats what friends are for and i for one have discussed things with my friends have got advice. Its natural that she was shocked because obviously her husband has been hiding it (Who knows?) Thats why she feels hurt.
That doesnt mean that her husband doesnt love her, and doesnt mean that theres ANY issue in the marriage. Also doesnt mean hes not a good father or will harm children. Like i said i’ve known people who have been drinking and have always provided for the whole family. You need to explain to your friend that she shud just talk to her husband (maybe they havnt been sleeping together in a while) I dont know but maybe if he jus explains to her that its a one off n he takes pleasure in it, which again is jus ‘fantasy’ and doesnt compare it to his wife.
