Husband watching something inappropriate online?

Saqi_the_angel · January 18, 2010, 2:15pm

I was talking with a close friend and she told me that she caught her husband watching something he shouldnt have been watching online. She was so shocked and freaked about it because in her mind there wasn’t a need for it since she thought they had quite a healthy relationship. I just told her that it wasn’t a reflection on her abilities but maybe her husband did this before marriage and just wrongly continued the bad habit. Maybe he had some secret fantasy which she couldn’t perform on him. I, for once, didn’t have anything better to say!

I mean, I thought the whole point of marriage was to do these things the “Halal” way in a respectful and modest way. Why do so many men have to resort to these outlets of immodesty?

Has anyone experienced this before with their husbands? What was your reaction and how did you deal with it?

Also, this doesn’t have to stop at husbands. Could be siblings, children etc. For me, my biggest concern is if my children (which I hope to have once Iam married) watch something X-rated online having accidentally stumbled onto it. How would their fragile minds cope with seeing something so graphic?

I don’t want to offend anyone or get banned people! It is just a genuine concern which we shouldn’t just “brush under the carpet”.

Might have educating himself