phewww.........so yr friend's husband wanted her to call him aap , and she think he's old fashioned ?? if they both r from pakistan than , they must have known that millions of women over there call their husbands aap not b/c it's old fashioned but out of respect . and how long they've been married ?? and if they've known each other before getting married didn't they discuss this @ that time ??
no hsap, these things were never discussed, and are neither discussed, these things are relatedt o values according to him and that yeh pata honee chaheay. The husband doesnt want her to cal him aap, hes never demanded it, but once his dadi heard the girl saying tum to him tu she scolded her, tu the girl thaught its old fashioned kay dadi ko kia masla hai, but the guy didnt disagree to the CONCEPT, not that he wanted her to say it.......but he agrees to such concepts.