lawyers are dime a dozen in the US. most of them don't make much. and its not all money - stress of being out of a job for almost a year and to plan to be out of your profession for another year or more - no sensible guy will want that.
Still. my statement is true.
They will not get broke and stress of such kind is over-rated.
Coming home and seeing your child takes all stresses disappear for a lot of parents.
She is 32 and late pregnancies have potential problems. It is already a bit late for her.