wow. thanks for ur advice, all of u, esp clothesmad and confucious and tipusltan. her parents cannot migrate as entreprenuers; neither can they get jobs there. i discussed ur suggestions with her. while she does feel he is being incredibly selfish by treating her this way now that they r married, hubby is still inisiting on going for a couple of years, getting the residency and coming back.
i guess she feels vulnerable coz u really dont know if he will be willing to come back after 2 years. he cud change his mind. but i guess she has to trust her hubby - if u wont trust ur life partner, who will u trust?
mostly dont come back and leave their parents to their owns fate. If he is being so practical now then he should thing for his past (parents) and as well as future (kids) the best option will be to work hard n his own while living in Pakistan. Simple. If he know what is in his fate then (naozbillah) there is no need of GOD and everybody has their expected future.