i mean androgynous in terms of character traits, not core gender identity. i find an androgynous balance of traits desirable, because those men would be able to draw on both traditionally masculine and feminine emotions and behaviors, i think they’re best able to cope with life’s challenges in a well-rounded way. plus, i like pretty boys 
It’s sad that these points filter out the majority of Pakistani men. That just shows you what kinds of boys we are raising. Absolutely pathetic state of affairs, I say.
Re: Husband Material
PCG, i think it depends on where u r living.
Sometimes the community ur in influences you to go out and seek more… if u see everyone else around you going out and getting an education and getting a job, then u pretty much end up doing the same. If ur company is not of that sort… then either u fall into the same trap.. or u set ur own goals and priorities..
khair
husband material… someone who has the capability of making their own life and being able to support a family. Someone who has a clear set of goals in mind… someone with an education… someone who has good morals.