Re: Husband Material
A perfect man
1) who has control over his shahwa (anger, lust and hunger).
2) who is able to protect and provide for his family.
3) who can make his wife happy physically and emotionally.
Those are not nakhray. Regardless of wife/gf issues, those are goals you should strive for on your own. The fact that you put no effort into any of those departments means you are a fat, lazy arse, that really doesn’t deserve an angel of a girl. You’ll have to settle for the fat girl, who doesn’t take care of her appearance, doesn’t groom herself, doesn’t keep her family out of getting in your face and interfering, doesn’t have any good conversational material, because she didn’t get past the 10th grade, etc etc. If that’s the kind of person YOU are, that’s the kind of girl YOU should marry.
I bet that’s not your dream girl, correct?
Boys have a lot of expectations of desi women. It’s only natural that the tables be turned around as well.
Besides, its only good for YOUR health and YOUR happiness anyway. Nothing I posted is harmful for you - it’s only good for you.
Suit a girl wishing good for her fellow Pakistani brothers.
Re: Husband Material
Oh so, for a man to get a good girl (or shall i say an Agnel?), he must be:
- Rich
- Educated
- Beautiful
- with Great Sense of Humour
- Living in a big mansion
- Nice cars, good balance etc...
.....If a man doesnt have any of that above he is a fat, lazy, arse that doesnt really deserve an angle?
By the way, please define Angle? You mean to say men should have that above in order to get a person like you? No Thanks, we are better off without women !
Your attitude towards Men is really pathetic, it's a no wonder you are not married and probably won't be unless your attitude is changed. I doubt if any 'sane' men will agree to marry you.
cool it
Oh so, for a man to get a good girl (or shall i say an Agnel?), he must be:
- Rich
- Educated
- Beautiful
- with Great Sense of Humour
- Living in a big mansion
- Nice cars, good balance etc... :)
This is why you should go to college. I never said most of the above.
Rich? No, I'm saying, he should hold a job, at least. It can be any job, and earn at any capacity, as long as the woman he chooses is comfortable with that income range.
Educated - yeah. Why is this such an issue?? You SHOULD be educated. Our entire quom is suffering because they are uneducated and get taken advantage of easily. So we girls don't want to raise dumb-arses anymore. You gotta problem with that??
Beautiful - no, I said even if he looks like the snot of Godzilla (hence Ugly), he should keem himself groomed.
Great sense of Humor - I didn't say that...? Read my post again.
Living in great mansion ? Didn't say that.
Nice cars? Didn't say that.
Balance? Hopefully, in the positives, but, again, didn't say that.
Looks like someone is defensive and insecure...ishaz, do you like not meet any of the basic requirements I posted?
cool it
Let me quote mine & ur post. Seems like you didn’t read my post properly, khair, here it is. Read it once again to get it in your head.
Now, once again, read what you have said above.
Re: Husband Material
Uh yeah. And?
Re: Husband Material
Just a question for GS ladies or any lady for this matter !
How many girls would accept
26 year old guy
Cisco certified Voice Professional
Not a graduate (drop out)
$55,000 per annum income
does not own any property other than a car.
And at the moment living with parents but wants to move out.
Slightly over weight (has a gut, but going to gym and trying to loose weight)
Does this fit in any ladies list of an acceptable husband
Just a question for GS ladies or any lady for this matter !
How many girls would accept
26 year old guy Cisco certified Voice Professional Not a graduate (drop out) $55,000 per annum income does not own any property other than a car. And at the moment living with parents but wants to move out. Slightly over weight (has a gut, but going to gym and trying to loose weight)
Does this fit in any ladies list of an acceptable husband
What is a Voice Professional?
I'd take him if he's willing to go back to school and work to get some more enlightenment...or he'd be better off with a girl who's also a dropout.
Just a question for GS ladies or any lady for this matter !
How many girls would accept
26 year old guy Cisco certified Voice Professional Not a graduate (drop out) $55,000 per annum income does not own any property other than a car. And at the moment living with parents but wants to move out. Slightly over weight (has a gut, but going to gym and trying to loose weight)
Does this fit in any ladies list of an acceptable husband
I think it's a myth that 90% of college graduated guys make more than 55k.
There are many who are doing better but 55k is average... and beside the education system and the economic crisis has "delayed" the age of guys to be settled at 26.
So keep working hard. Having no property on your name is not a biggie either. Most people are financially stable at 32 to 35.... if they are on their own. If it's their daddy's wealth and support then of course it matters that you could be settled much earlier.
Also, remember a girl who brings a guy from back home is not at a competing 55k level. He is mostly at BK/MC D's level. SO don't worry at 26 if you have not touched the stars yet...
What is a Voice Professional?
I'd take him if he's willing to go back to school and work to get some more enlightenment...or he'd be better off with a girl who's also a dropout.
Well a voice professional is that works on the IP based telephony ssystem, by that i mean phones that you have in your office are mostly ip based phones specially if those are Nortel, Avaya or Cisco, a voice professional is one who sets up that network and enables all the phone network in organizations to work smoothly, Secondly as far as going back to school goes well in IT you cannot stop studying bcuz it is one certification after another and the moment you stop your position becomes stagnant and vulnerable, so education is part of the job but going back to full time skool is kind of tough but not impossible.
I think it's a myth that 90% of college graduated guys make more than 55k.
There are many who are doing better but 55k is average... and beside the education system and the economic crisis has "delayed" the age of guys to be settled at 26.
So keep working hard. Having no property on your name is not a biggie either. Most people are financially stable at 32 to 35.... if they are on their own. If it's their daddy's wealth and support then of course it matters that you could be settled much earlier.
Also, remember a girl who brings a guy from back home is not at a competing 55k level. He is mostly at BK/MC D's level. SO don't worry at 26 if you have not touched the stars yet...
as long as you are good at what you do making money is not tough specially 50-60k given you work hard at it. But thanks .
Kaun - lalay these GS ladies have been very generous today ! as if i were a girl - i wouldn’t marry some one in your shoes
or may be it is just my revenge thingy - coz no one married me when I was at the same stage ( apart being the drop out ) where you are now ! 
lol brother, i dunno what to say but mujh sey kis baat ka revenge 
lol brother, i dunno what to say but mujh sey kis baat ka revenge :D
Not with you mate :)
Re: Husband Material
I think there are two types of husband material:
1) All of the above
2) None of the above + Western Citizenship
That goes for wife material also by the way ... :)
Sad but true
Well a voice professional is that works on the IP based telephony ssystem, by that i mean phones that you have in your office are mostly ip based phones specially if those are Nortel, Avaya or Cisco, a voice professional is one who sets up that network and enables all the phone network in organizations to work smoothly, Secondly as far as going back to school goes well in IT you cannot stop studying bcuz it is one certification after another and the moment you stop your position becomes stagnant and vulnerable, so education is part of the job but going back to full time skool is kind of tough but not impossible.
Yeah understandable. You might want to fix how you spell Toronto, though. That won't impress the ladies.
Yeah understandable. You might want to fix how you spell Toronto, though. That won't impress the ladies.
lol, NOTED, thanks for the tip !!!
an intelligent, sensitive, androgynous man :)
You mean half man and half woman? ;-)
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Androgynous??? wow. 