Those are not nakhray. Regardless of wife/gf issues, those are goals you should strive for on your own. The fact that you put no effort into any of those departments means you are a fat, lazy arse, that really doesn’t deserve an angel of a girl. You’ll have to settle for the fat girl, who doesn’t take care of her appearance, doesn’t groom herself, doesn’t keep her family out of getting in your face and interfering, doesn’t have any good conversational material, because she didn’t get past the 10th grade, etc etc. If that’s the kind of person YOU are, that’s the kind of girl YOU should marry.
I bet that’s not your dream girl, correct?
Boys have a lot of expectations of desi women. It’s only natural that the tables be turned around as well.
Besides, its only good for YOUR health and YOUR happiness anyway. Nothing I posted is harmful for you - it’s only good for you.
Suit a girl wishing good for her fellow Pakistani brothers.