Re: Husband???? life is a mess.. advice plzz
Parda,
First of all, has your husband's behaviour generally been like this or has it started recently? I mean, the lack of caring, not doing work around the house etc.
Is he still giving your daughter attention?
The spark in a marriage does tend to die down after a few years, but when a wife is pregnant guys do step up a gear and help out. I take it he knows about your difficulties and the recommendation of complete bedrest? Neglecting his wife and expecting her to do the shopping under such circumstances is extreme. Something is definately bugging him or hes just acting like a neglectful jerk. You have to talk to him straight in the eye and tell him how you feel.