man leaves his wife after finding out about her past relationship(s). He asked her b4 marriage and she said she had none.
Guys, what would you do if you were in his position??
Girls..any opinions on this
p.s how many women here care about man past relationships???
Re: husbad leaves wife
^^ wife still is in contact with the past relationship?
What is done is done. Get over it. May be it should let you realize that you were also on the wrong path earlier in life.
well...did the husband leave because the wife had relationships?
or did he leave cuz the wife lied to him and now he can't trust her?
either way, you don't just get up and leave the wife in any situation. you talk it out...see the reasons behind her trying to hide it in the first place. any husband who just leaves without trying to understand why or how the situation arose is foolish and immature.
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wife shouldn't have lied
if the only reason that the husband left wife is because she lied.......husband shouldn't have left
there are other ways to solve this
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I don't care about past .. .. as long as she is honest to me in PRESENT .. I give a damn to past!
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It's a breach of trust. She lied.
^^ wife still is in contact with the past relationship?
nope
well...did the husband leave because the wife had relationships?
or did he leave cuz the wife lied to him and now he can't trust her?
either way, you don't just get up and leave the wife in any situation. you talk it out...see the reasons behind her trying to hide it in the first place. any husband who just leaves without** trying to understand** why or how the situation arose is foolish and immature.
Most likely both.
I'm pretty sure he asked her about her past relationship(s) b/c he didn't wanted to marry a girl who had b/f(S). trying to understand? trying to understand what??
wife shouldn't have lied
if the only reason that the husband left wife is because she lied.......husband shouldn't have left
there are other ways to solve this
ways to solve this?? care to explain more
what if a man just can't get over this/? then what would you suggest? i am not married but i am assuming it's ***** hardest thing to get over with.
ways to solve this?? care to explain more what if a man just can't get over this/? then what would you suggest? i am not married but i am assuming it's ***** hardest thing to get over with.
omg...what is he a baby or something?
I say the dude needs to grow up and stop being such a baby.....and if the genders were reversed here i'd say the exact same.
omg...what is he a baby or something?
I say the dude needs to grow up and stop being such a baby.....and if the genders were reversed here i'd say the exact same.
so, you telling me it's okay for her to lie.. how you can trust someone after this?? but then again you are a woman lol
Re: husbad leaves wife
Yes the wife lied, she shouldn't have.....I also understand that his trust was broken
but from the sounds of it, he just isn't even trying to understand anything or make amends............its like he's given up, no one should be give up on marriage so easily.....and it was in the past.....if she's been faithful in her marriage so far......its not that big of an issue
ways to solve this......talk it out, understand why she lied........what kind of relationship it really was.....it may be not that serious at all............but to some extent he needs to understand that its her past and she may wish to keep it to herself, and she has the right to
Yes the wife lied, she shouldn't have.....I also understand that his trust was broken
but from the sounds of it, he just isn't even trying to understand anything or make amends............its like he's given up, no one should be give up on marriage so easily.....and it was in the past.....if she's been faithful in her marriage so far......its not that big of an issue
ways to solve this......talk it out, understand why she lied........what kind of relationship it really was.....it may be not that serious at all............but to some extent he needs to understand that its her past and she may wish to keep it to herself, and she has the right to
maybe he didn't give up so easily.. i dont no
it's hard for marriage to last if you can't trust ur partner..
now why do many women hide their past relationships?? i don;t think there are many women who would tell the guy, look i date this or that guy for this long etc
why not??
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honestly because it's the women's life....not the man's
Both man and wife are living their life together from point B forward, they make the commitment from point B forward.......it honestly shouldn't matter what happened before point B....people make mistakes.....people change......if you love the person for who she or he is.......and the person stays constant with his/her behavior,etc.......does it really make a difference what he/she did before she met you??
And it isn't so one sided.........why don't men tell women who they have dated??
Also if she hasn't done anything after "point B" to lose his trust.....I'm pretty sure that their marriage isn't at the point where it can't be fixed.......but I don't know the exact situtation.......
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lahori99: is the guy educated?
**What is done is done. Get over it. **May be it should let you realize that you were also on the wrong path earlier in life.
omg...what is he a baby or something?
I say the dude needs to grow up and stop being such a baby.....and if the genders were reversed here i'd say the exact same.
so, you telling me it's okay for her to lie.. how you can trust someone after this?? but then again you are a woman lol
Man said it, so no response. I'm not surprised.
:)
Man said it, so no response. I'm not surprised.
:)
well..yeah lol
its easier for woman to say this.. move on..you wife has been with guys b4..who cares lol
modern way of living, 21 century baby!
lahori99: is the guy educated?
i dont know, how educated he is. I dont know him personally. he is desi, that`s all i know for a fact.
honestly because it's the women's life....not the man's Both man and wife are living their life together from point B forward, they make the commitment from point B forward.......it honestly shouldn't matter what happened before point B....people make mistakes.....people change......if you love the person for who she or he is.......and the person stays constant with his/her behavior,etc.......does it really make a difference what he/she did before she met you??
And it isn't so one sided.........*why don't men tell women who they have dated?? *
Also if she hasn't done anything after "point B" to lose his trust.....I'm pretty sure that their marriage isn't at the point where it can't be fixed.......but I don't know the exact situtation.......
Women dont ask. Most women dont ask this question. They should. Lets face it, how many men here want to marry a girl who has been around town. just curious.
considering how desi men think, women should be honest about their past relationship(s) b4 getting married. I think so.
same goes for women, who can`t spent their lives with someone who has been in relationships should ask.